I firmly believe that the world rewards those with perspective — namely perspective of what it’s like to NOT have the things you want, to NOT be with someone who is right for you, to NOT work a job that’s fulfilling, to NOT always make the right decisions.
What true, real BDE comes down to is being secure in being insecure.
You should follow your heart, not your ego.
When you firmly believe that you deserve more, it becomes impossible to ignore. And with that comes an incredible amount of freedom and changes in your life.