Brianna Wiest

Driven people have a higher threshold for what they think is possible in their lives. That’s what fuels them to move.

If you consistently point out the problems you see in society or other people more than you offer solutions to those problems, you are in an ego trap. 

That’s what the right partner does to your whole life: they reorient what you think is possible, they realign your priorities. They make you stronger than you ever thought you could be.

A cognitive distortion is a way your mind convinces you that something is true when it really isn’t.

Destination addiction is what happens when you put more energy into falling in love with the future than you do creating a desirable present.

You can start realizing that you have exactly the life you want – it was only a matter of figuring out why you wanted it that way.

The person you’re going to be with will not always make you feel comfortable. It will not always be easy.

Some people are naturally more inclined to seek out what’s “wrong” with their lives, and while this can lead to a pessimistic mindset if not used carefully, it can also be the tool with which you identify areas in your life that need improvement, and strategize how you can improve them. 

1. Seeing who will fight for you.

It means knowing that life is not happening to you, it is mirroring you.  

If you want to change some part of your life, change the way you speak about other people who are already there.

Your life will not fall apart when you stop worrying, it will come together. Life is not happening to you, it’s a reflection of you.