Becca Martin

If you get invited somewhere you’re always the first person to say yes. You don’t have to check-in with anyone or sort out your plans, if you’re free you go because adventure awaits.

If you have an opportunity, embrace it full on because travel is worth it. Travel will humble you, it will test you and break you, but it will ultimately make you a better person.

The guy you have to basically throw yourself at isn’t the kind of guy you want to be with. You don’t want to have to fight for his attention; you don’t want to have to make a fool of yourself for someone to notice you because while you’re noticing him he might be noticing someone else.

Querencia — a place from which one’s strength is drawn, where one feels at home; the place where you are your most authentic self.

“I’m insecure about cumming too soon, I think that is every guys worry. No one wants to cum in 30 seconds, it’s embarrassing and it’s a huge turn off for her. So basically, like everyone dude, we just try to think of things that are non-arousing to last.”

When he was around the sun burned brighter and the world turned faster, he became the center of your tiny world and made it feel so much bigger. He didn’t have to do much, but the feelings he gave you were immense and as hard you tried, you couldn’t push them away.

The way you care so deeply about everything is such a blessing, even if it does feel like a curse from time to time. It allows you to feel everything more and experience moments that others miss out on by covering their emotions.

Every single person on this world has flaws and failures, everyone has times they don’t feel good enough and things they are unsure about, but it is what we do with those things that is important.

“I just wish she’d take control sometimes. I know she likes to be dominated, but it’s so hot when women just take control and lead the way it takes some of the pressure off us.”

Don’t be with someone who doesn’t fill you with pleasure to the core, especially from the start. Don’t force a relationship because you’re lonely or you’re tired of being on your own.

There is a whole life to live outside doing things for others. I promise you life will continue if you start putting yourself first, just like I promise you the sun will continue to rise and set every day and every night without you guiding it.

You can fall for someone way out of your league. You can fall for someone taller than you wanted or maybe shorter than you. You can fall for someone with blue eyes when all you wanted someone with brown. Life doesn’t care about your expectations.