Becca Martin

“I was actually considering dating the last guy I ghosted, but after a month or so of talking he started becoming controlling.”

I’m scared, I’m so terribly scared to have you break my heart after all the time I spent loving it and mending the previously broken pieces back together. I don’t want to place it in your hands carefully just to have you be reckless and drop it then watch it shatter all over the floor.

You owe it to yourself to leave, to love yourself, to find your own happiness without them. I know it’s hard and I know you miss them terribly, but you can’t find happiness in a person who doesn’t bring out the best in you.

You are worth more than being ghosted or waiting hours upon hours for a text message you’ll never receive. You are more than unanswered questions and feeling hopeless.

You did the right thing by leaving him, even if you feel lost right now without him. You are smarter than he gave you credit for, you are more beautiful than he told you and you are stronger than how weak he made you feel. You are more than him and you are better without him.

I deserve someone who will have my back even when we can’t stand each other at the moment because that’s what loving someone means.

I know by shutting my heart off I’m not getting any closer to finding love, but that’s okay because honestly I’m not looking.

I’m someone who is there for you through every day things in life. I’m not someone who is only there when it is convenient for you.

In order to find love as the first born you need to take a step back and trust others.

Forever still isn’t enough time with you.

You are the best of both worlds. You can have just as much fun going out for ice cream as you can going out to a bar.

Take a good hard look in the mirror at yourself.