Becca Martin

I know by shutting my heart off I’m not getting any closer to finding love, but that’s okay because honestly I’m not looking.

I’m someone who is there for you through every day things in life. I’m not someone who is only there when it is convenient for you.

In order to find love as the first born you need to take a step back and trust others.

Forever still isn’t enough time with you.

You are the best of both worlds. You can have just as much fun going out for ice cream as you can going out to a bar.

Take a good hard look in the mirror at yourself.

You are a very romantic and passionate lover and will make sure your partner is fully satisfied in bed.

You focus on bringing other’s together. You are kind and compassionate, making it easy for you to get along with everyone.

Look in the mirror and ask yourself if this life is making you happy, if this life is filling you with excitement and if the answer is no, change something.

“If she tells me she’s hungry before I come to her house I’ll stop on the way and grab her favorite take out to bring to her.”

“We never stopped loving each other. Affection is the most important thing in my opinion, if you have a physical and emotional connection you’re going to make it just fine.”

But even on my loneliest days, deep down I know being with someone wouldn’t make me any happier.

I hope you found someone who loves you as much as I loved you, maybe even more than that.

Going back when you swore you wouldn’t will only hurt you. It will show them they can keep messing up time after time and you’ll keep letting them back into your life with enough convincing apologizes.

Make a list of all the things you love in your life.

I watched you give and give and give, but all you were left with was emptiness inside your chest because you were always giving pieces of yourself to someone who could never give anything back.

Try to bring new changes to your life to switch things up a little, even if they’re only small changes.

It’s hurting yourself a little more because maybe you find comfort in the pain, maybe you find comfort in the sadness you feel in the night.