Becca Martin

He shouldn’t leave bruises on you, even if you were just “messing around” and his verbal abuse is still abuse. He shouldn’t have double standards, he shouldn’t be allowed to go out then get mad everytime you leave the house on the weekend. That is not okay.

People aren’t worried about your life because they’re too busy worrying about what you’re thinking about their life.

“One dude I had sex with for the first and only time told me he loved me while we were having sex. The sex wasn’t even good.”

Sagittarius: Everything is a matter of perspective, it all comes down to how you choose to react to your situation at hand.

Don’t throw away all the strength you’ve gained and how independent you’ve become the second someone comes into your life.

The toilet seat will always be down.

I need to live my life for me and stop romanticizing the idea you might come back because you’re not coming back.

“I’m more than an option.” – Lacy, 31

Capricorn: You hold too many grudges over the little things that cause unnecessary fights and ultimately drives your partner to resent you.

I don’t want to get my hopes up to only have them crushed by being another friend or someone’s 2 AM booty call – I know I deserve more than that.

I couldn’t comprehend how I could ever love someone that wasn’t you. I couldn’t pick up the pieces of my heart that you shattered. Until I could.

He shouldn’t make decisions that would affect the both of you on his own. That isn’t right and it surely isn’t fair to you.

Really putting in effort with her family.

Capricorn: You feel sad at first, but then you use the heart break to motivate you. You don’t let it get you down or hold you back, instead you let it inspire you to do better.

You might like the instant gratification of being wanted, but it shouldn’t mean a thing if he doesn’t respect you.

It isn’t fair that you can love someone so much and to them it still isn’t enough.

He wants you to give things up for him, but he isn’t willing to do the same for you. That’s not okay. It leaves you feeling empty and hopeless because you don’t understand how someone who claims he loves you could make you feel this empty.

You can’t hate yourself into loving yourself. It’s impossible.