Arlene Ambrose

Continuing to pursue these relationships causes you to miss out on connections with people who care about your wellbeing.

The goal of softhearted people is to live in a state of harmony with minimal stress. When they are unable to do this, they become moody, unhappy, and feel drained.

You’ll recognize when you’ve found home without ever having the words to describe it. Home is a sense of knowing, surety, and familiarity. 

You can’t seem to choose a career path because your passions don’t relate to each other.

You’re attracted to relationships that require fighting. You think you have to do something to receive love. You think you have to overcome a crisis and suffer. These thoughts are struggle-love. 

You need to be still. 

Compare yourself to where you were yesterday, not other people.

You can send him a stack of self-improvement books. You can link a thousand inspirational videos, journal prompts, and workbooks, but it won’t fix his brokenness unless he wants to. 

Their tactics aren’t blatant, but sneaky. They leave you second guessing yourself.

Not might, not maybe, but will. There’s curiosity in seeing what we can get away with.