Hate yourself for still caring about the person you aren’t supposed to care about anymore. Shame yourself until you’re completely suppressing everything you feel.
Frustration is what leads us to the next natural step, equilibrium, and greater inner peace within our day to day living.
What would you stand for if you knew that nobody would judge you?
But we avoid feeling anything because we have more or less been taught that our feelings have lives of their own. That they’ll carry on forever if we give them even a moment of our awareness.
This monster exists, I think, in virtue of the levels of consciousness we have evolved – a necessary consequence of our minds.
If you agree that this is an issue, then I encourage you to bring it up with people. Can you imagine how hard it is for paedophiles who want help? Who could they even talk to?
Feel free to have one foot on either side of the fence. Embrace your personal dichotomies. They do not make us outliers — they make us human.
And as foam slid over my teeth on onto my lips, I braced myself for an end. Of the moment, of my life, I didn’t know. All I knew was that my heart was finally ready to explode.
ENFP Outcome: Stays up for fourteen straight days in an attempt to complete first resolution and subsequently ends up creating fifteen more.
I provide therapy for people with dependence issues. Commonly, they’re known as “addicts.” But I’ve got a real problem with that word.