5 Powerful Ways To Get Over The Ex You Thought You Never Could

It’s easy to say “you’re better off” and try to erase the memory of them, but when you’re hurting that can sound frustratingly simple.
It’s easy to say “you’re better off” and try to erase the memory of them, but when you’re hurting that can sound frustratingly simple.
“I have mixed feelings about her, too. She shows me to two sides… since connecting with her, she has a feeling that has remorse, and I feel a side that takes responsibility… and then a feeling that I feel has a relief.”
I will commit myself to you even if it scares the hell out of me, even if I know it puts me in a vulnerable position where I can get hurt so easily, risking it all and hoping that you will never break me.
As I gleefully perused the “sugar lifestyle” site, I felt a strange sort of kinship with these young, eager women on Seeking Arrangement. In my twenties, I had landed myself in similar situations, albeit unconsciously—pandering to the affections of older men who, without question, would pick up the check, the flight, and sometimes, the rent.
“My friend was dating a girl for a couple of months when she told him that she was pregnant and he was the father. He broke up with her after that because…they had never had sex.”
“Six years later we are 1000 times happier than we were before he cheated. It brought us closer.”
After a breakup, it’s common to look back over what happened and wonder how to get your ex to forgive you.
There isn’t a more misogynistic, racist or homophobic program on television … so why is the long-running ABC reality program still so popular after 14 years?
When everybody makes mistakes, how do we know when it’s normal or acceptable and when it is patterned behavior that has gone too far?
“See, to displace one evil act, you have to help facilitate another. Which is where I come in. I am your facilitator. For the next thirty-four minutes that you would’ve spent here, you’re instead going to do everything I tell you. Deal?”
Here’s the sly thing about emotional psychopaths: they’re very good at not coming across as psychopaths, so good sometimes that it’s tricky to spot when you’re being emotionally abused.
I find lately that any time I write an article outlining certain traits of men or how we “should” or “shouldn’t” act in a relationship (I have to be careful with those words because people often accuse me of telling…
Having standards isn’t simply expecting that things will go a certain way, it’s focused attention on what you really WANT, then making the effort to change or get rid of anything that doesn’t meet your standards.
As the past recedes, so does the pain. We continue to embrace each moment, to make the most of each new day, and sooner or later love comes round again.
If you are reading this, chances are you are a basket case or at least on the way to becoming one.
Stripping and escorting have helped inspire and sustain my writing, but they’ve also exposed me to genuinely heartbreaking things.