(March 21st to April 19th)
You learn to stop falling in love with the wrong people when you stop underestimating yourself and when you stop trying to convince yourself every relationship is the one.
(April 20th to May 21st)
You generally learn your lesson in matters of the heart when you begin to soften, especially with age. You learn to let go of toxic baggage of past relationships and to enjoy the beauty of love as simple as it is, sometimes unpredictable, and sometimes crazily comfortable.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
You start falling in love with the right people (and stop attracting all the crazy, unforgiving ones) when you let go of your unhealthy obsessions regarding your own body, expectations and health.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
You stop wrecking your life over unhealthy romantic prospects when you finally understand stalking and obsessing each day about your ex will only prevent you from finding love.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
You finally stop chasing impossible loves when you stop trying to change your partners and embrace them just as they are, flaws and amazing attributes alike.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
You stop confusing the love(s) of your life for emotionally backwards people when you realize what you already have is perfect. And that, my friend, is your beautiful soul, your dignity, your courage, even your perfectionism can be wonderful sometimes. Learn to believe in yourself more, because you are important, you are unique and most importantly, you are enough.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
When you finally shush your internal drama king or queen, then you will be able to see that everything you’ve ever looked for is just beneath your nose.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
You will learn to stop chasing the wrong people when you finally understand you are allowed to be picky, to love yourself because of that, and to still stay a romantic at heart.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
You will find enjoyment in love when you stop comparing everyone you meet with your exes. Everyone is authentic, just like you, and most importantly, everyone deserves a first chance in love.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
You will fall for the right people when you abandon your comfort zone and consider your expectations around love. Think about it – you may not like the men in your surroundings, but have you tried dating far away from home?
(January 21st to February 18th)
You will be truly fulfilled when you stop scratching at your past wounds, look yourself in the eye and accept the past for what it’s been. Understand it does not define you, that validation from others is okay, but most importantly, that what you can give yourself and others is your light in the world. And that’s true love.
(February 19th to March 20th)
You will be finally falling for the right people when you decide to crack your own shell and move out into the light. Being secluded in a home filled with your ex’s belongings and memories will only prevent you from moving forward, so kickstart that late spring clean(s)ing and put yourself back out there in the dating game.