“Someone who values others over herself.”
“I want someone to kiss me like they’re drowning and I’m air. I want them to touch me with reverence. I want them to look into my eyes while we make love and tell me afterwards how they changed color. I want them to hold me like I’m some precious, delicate thing, but fuck me with the wild abandon of a man who’s finally able to lose control, and unleash himself.”
“Embrace the glorious mess that you are.”
“My wife turned out to be extremely food jealous. If I am eating something that looks and tastes better than what she is eating, she gets pretty upset if I don’t offer her any.”
Sonder: The realization that each passerby has a life as vivid and complex as your own.
“No way am I going down on you! Vaginas are GROSS!”
Yet, he was surprised when I never spoke to him again…
I’m very much pro-choice, but I could never have an abortion myself. I’m also 30-something with a house and a very good salary, so more than able to care for a kid. I’ve always wanted kids anyway, so I decided to keep it. I told him as much, and that he was free to be involved or not, but I didn’t need his money.
“When she talks herself down and won’t accept your arguments to convince her otherwise. Or when she has to have everybody’s attention all the time at all cost.”
“We both realized that we were way more sexually compatible than we ever previously thought. Our relationship had been so shitty that we never realized we both had so many of the same kinks. Our sex had always been vanilla and gentle.”
We were just chatting on the he phone and she said “we should go see a movie sometime”
Me: “I’m not a big movie guy.”