Lacey Ramburger

ISFJ: What you need: Someone who provides a balance for you. Someone who isn’t afraid to commit to you, even if they’re nervous about the idea of commitment.

I am slowly learning that my needs matter, too.

When he says he doesn’t see a future with you, do not hold onto the ideas of the future you imagined the two of you could have had.

Acts of Service: Maybe there was a time where you noticed he had a lot on his plate, and you went out of your way to help him. You would help clean up the kitchen, or take out the trash, or even help carry in the groceries, just because you knew he would appreciate it.

ISFP: Your creative and soulful personality.

It’s time to admit to yourself that he doesn’t miss you, no matter how much you wish he did.

I don’t know if I actually miss you, or just the way you made me feel. But I know that the best thing for me to do is to set the phone down and allow what we had to be simply memory.

Yet the truth is, a conversation changes nothing—it wouldn’t have fixed the circumstances.

Thank you for seeing the best in me.

The truth is, somewhere along the way of all these whirlwind moments I fell completely and remarkably in love with you. And it scares me sometimes.

No one should feel the need to fix something just because it’s broken.

It can be fun, until it’s not anymore.

ENFP: In 2018, you’re going to look around and realize that your life is actually pretty great- and you’re going to explore it to it’s fullest.

You are already worth love and affection, but sometimes we take a little longer to see that for ourselves.

I’m here to tell you, your pain is valid. Your suffering is worth consolation. Your brokenness does not translate to worthlessness.

So if you want her, you have to tell her. Now.

I miss you. I want you to know that.

ENFJ: You kept yourself closed off, never willing to share your feelings with them.