Be With Someone Who Is Good For Your Mental Health

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Caique Silva

We all have demons imprisoned inside our heads, and they can be loud at times, making us act irrationally. We all have monsters under our beds, stealing all our hopes and dreams, telling us how hopeless we are.

Until we meet that one person who makes them all disappear.

Their voice alone can automatically silence the deafening sounds of evil; even just the sound of their name can drive all the craziness away.

Can you imagine standing in the middle of a crowded street with strangers bumping shoulders with you and feeling lost, but then you lay your eyes on him and suddenly you see the light at the end of the tunnel?

All we need is love to silence the voices; hell, we only need love to silence everything. Just make sure that you are looking at the right place and at the right person. If you are looking for someone who can slay demons, then be with someone who is good for your mental health.

Be with someone who has the patience to smile and make you laugh when you are panicking and your mind is all over the place.

Be with someone who will give you a blanket, ice cream and play a movie that will lift you up from depression.

Be with someone who will stay beside you on the bathroom floor waiting for everything to stop, who will stand by no matter how many breakdowns, no matter how many fail attempts you experience trying to get better.

Be with someone who will not blame you for your weaknesses and for not being strong enough to fight them away.

Be with someone who can treat you right, maybe even more than you deserve.

Be with someone who is proud of who you are and what you have become.

Be with someone who can see how much of a mess you can be and still say, “You’re beautiful.”

Be with someone who can look past your mistakes and still adore you.

Be with someone who can trust you with his heart because a love like this is fragile. Once you give unconditional love to someone else, it’s hard to get it back.

Lastly, be with someone who can thaw the ice around your heart and makes you want to trust again.

Love is always the answer to everything. If not, then try to think again. Because it is. Love can work wonders, love can make you remember what is good and make you forget what is bad inside you. It makes our world a better place, and a love from another person can make you want to change to get out of your cave and be something.

Wait for a love like this. A love that is good to you, for you.

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