Some People Will Never Be Yours, No Matter How Much You Want Them To Be

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Mohamed Nohassi

Some people will never be yours, no matter how much you want them to be.

What’s yours is yours, and always will be. But what if you want someone, and it’s not in the cards? Sometimes we fight for things that simply aren’t there.

The person you deserve will make it obvious. They will put in the effort. It should be effortless. Relationships don’t have to be hard.

Some people will never be yours, no matter how much you want them to be. You can waste your time trying to make things happen, or move on and know it’s not right. Whether it’s timing, chemistry, emotional unavailability, it isn’t there.

Don’t push something that’s not there. Don’t waste your time on something deep down you know will never happen. You’re better then that. And you know it.

Don’t leave open spaces in your life for people who don’t deserve it. Doing so hinders your progress. Waiting on someone forever can allow you to miss someone great. Don’t close yourself off to others because you’re hoping for someone to change.

Spend your time with friends, family, doing what you love. What’s yours will be yours. Trust it.

Don’t prioritize someone who doesn’t prioritize you. Trying to make something happen that isn’t meant to be will only end in disappointment. Love yourself, and life falls into place. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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