Stay Single Until You Meet A Girl Who Makes You Want To Be A Better Man

Couple
marcobertoliphotography

Stay single until you meet a girl who learns to appreciate all you have to give.

Someone who looks at your kindness and respect not as a sign of weakness but something to admire.

Stay single until you meet a girl who doesn’t call you clingy when you show her you’re interested.

Someone who won’t put you in the friend zone for it.

But someone who values it and reciprocates it.

Stay single until you meet a girl who has her head on her shoulders.

She has a career. She has goals. She has actual interests that are more than Sunday brunch.

Someone who knows what she wants and where she’s going.

Stay single until you meet a girl with self-respect and standards.

Someone who doesn’t have to be drunk to be with you and knows when to call it quits.

Stay single until you meet a girl who can take care of herself and isn’t looking for you to do that.

Someone who has their shit together.

Stay single until you meet a girl who loves herself.

And that means taking care of herself physically, emotionally and mentally.

Someone who stands beside you in a room and you think you are the lucky one because she’s so beautiful.

Stay single until you meet someone who is whole by themselves.

Someone who isn’t looking at you to love them to fill some void.

Stay single until you meet someone who is over their ex.

The girl whose vocabulary does not include the word jealous.

Because when you are confident you aren’t comparing yourself to anyone.

Someone with standards.

The girl who won’t tolerate you canceling last minute.

The girl who won’t give you the light of day if you disrespect her for a moment.

The girl who doesn’t wait around for you to make up your mind.

Stay single until you meet a girl and you know you have to act fast with or someone else will.

The girl who ends an actual date at the front door, which you respect but you walk away craving just seeing her again.

Stay single until you meet a girl you’d proudly introduce to you parents.

Someone who values family and that girl you could see yourself maybe one day building your own family with.

Stay single until you meet a girl who goes out of her way to do things for you.

Not because you aren’t capable but because she enjoys it.

Stay single until you meet the girl you actually want to listen to.

Someone who spoils you with gestures.

Someone who surprises you.

Someone who makes an effort to show you she cares.

Stay single until you meet a girl who actually wants to make you dinner.

Because it isn’t just about where you take her out to eat or if you pay but there’s something special about a girl who cares enough to cook for you.

Stay single until you meet a girl who heals any pain you hung onto in the past.

Making you really appreciate how things turned out.

Stay single until you meet a girl who makes you genuinely happy.

Like you look over at her laying next to you sleeping and there isn’t anyone better.

When you look at her just doing something small like cleaning the dishes or just watching T.V and you think she’s the most beautiful person in the entire world and she’s not even trying.

Stay single until you meet a girl who is your best friend.

Your favorite company.

Someone who has this ability to make you the happiest person but she has her moments of making you angry too.

Stay single until you meet a girl you can’t stay mad at.

The one who makes you address whatever problem you have and you work through it.

Stay single until you meet the girl who shows you, fighting doesn’t mean it’s over. But something you’ll overcome together.


Stay single until you meet someone who makes you scratch your head as to why she’s still single.

Someone who suddenly makes you listen to those really corny songs.

Someone who makes you realize what being in love actually means.

Stay single until you find yourself doing really crazy things for her.

Driving hours just to see her for a few.

But regardless of how crazy it may seem to anyone else it makes sense to you.

Because she’s the one you stay up at night thinking about.

Stay single until you meet a girl who isn’t afraid to say I love you first.

And you take her hand and slow dance or do anything really cliche that you might have made fun of your friends for but you get it now.

Stay single until you meet a girl who walks into your life and you can’t let her walk out unless it’s with your hand in hers.

Stay single until you meet a girl who doesn’t make you fear the future.

Someone you want to create a life with.

Stay single until you meet a girl who makes you think twice about the words I do.

Until then stay single. TC mark

Kirsten Corley

Kirsten is the author of But Before You Leave, a book of poetry about the experiences we struggle to put into words.

This Book Is For You 👇

“Never lose sight of the fact that love, and only love, has the capacity to save even the most desperate parts of you.” — Bianca Sparacino

“Live a life that is driven; not by fear, but by love.” — Bianca Sparacino

“Take your life back and grow it into something that inspires you to rise with conviction and passion. Take your life back and grow it into something that you are proud of.” — Bianca Sparacino

Click Here

More From Thought Catalog

This is me letting you go

If there’s one thing we all need to stop doing, it’s waiting around for someone else to show up and change our lives. Just be the person you’ve been waiting for.

At the end of the day, you have two choices in love – one is to accept someone just as they are and the other is to walk away.

We owe it to ourselves to live the greatest life that we’re capable of living, even if that means that we have to be alone for a very long time.

“Everyone could use a book like this at some point in their life.” – Heather

Let go now
Stay Single Until You Meet A Girl Who Makes You Want To Be A Better Man is cataloged in , , , ,