Anal Sex Stories — 50+ Girls/Guys On Their Experience With Anal Sex

The unedited truth about anal sex as told by various men and women.

Back Door Men: 40 Guys on Reddit Explain Why They Love Having Anal Sex With Women

40 of the best anal sex stories and observations revealed from a Reddit thread on what butt sex is really like. From men that have anal sex with their wives, to guys that try it early on in the dating session, these stories capture the essence of the sex act. 

1. “You can cum in it and not have little shits pop out nine months later.”

2. “It has forty-six more muscles and is four degrees warmer than the vagina.”

3. “The sidewalk is a nice place to walk. It’s designed for walking and overall much more comfortable. But every so often, you just wanna go play in the grass.”

4. “Warmer, tighter, and more degrading.”

5. “Nothing takes a sexual experience from 0-100 faster than anal. With anal, I can go balls-deep without having to worry about hurting her. Plus, she literally goes into a trance-like state when I’m plowing her anally. A state vaginal doesn’t readily get her to. You know what’s better than one hole? Two! And if she’s into it, I’m having it!”

6. “If I love you, I love your asshole as well.”

7. “It’s MUCH tighter, so therefore feels better. Some women like it and a lot of men are all about giving pleasure. Plus, it’s considered taboo, so it’s a bigger turn-on to do it.”

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8. “Well, for my SO, it’s a for-sure way to make her cum, and cum hard. So that’s hot. Also, I just love the way a woman looks with something penetrating her lovely asshole.”

9.“There’s none really. It’s more of a second option when it’s that time of month. The amusement park doesn’t close because the main roller coaster is under maintenance. We still have the log ride!”

10. “It’s all about submission. If a woman will let a man do something so dirty and nasty to her, she’s submitting to him completely, if only during sex. Don’t believe me? Ask around and see if a guy wants to do anal EVERY time. Obviously, he doesn’t. It’s nasty as fuck. It’s the same with the facial.”

11. “It’s a power thing for me. I like being in control, and fucking a woman in the ass is basically as submissive as you can have her.”

12. “It’s sort of like NASA and the moon. A long time ago they looked at that beautiful orb hanging in the night sky and thought ‘We are not supposed to be there. It will be costly. It will be dangerous. Some people might say it’s not supposed to happen.’ But they did it anyway. And that’s why we do it in the pooper.”

13. “I mean when you get right down to it, it’s just another hole that a man wants his penis in.”

14. “Part of it is the taboo aspect. It is more intimate in a way because we are letting down all our borders regarding what is ‘normal.’ It’s our dirty little secret. Everyone assumes we have sex, but most people wouldn’t assume she lets me cum in her ass. I think another thing is a certain level of trust that must be present, and that she trusts me to not just drive it home at the starting gun. The bit of pain she may experience in the beginning might seem reminiscent of a woman’s ‘first time,’ and my carnal desire to have my way with her overtaking my normal instinct to not hurt her. The feeling that she is giving up some of her humility for my pleasure, and that I am doing to her as I please. That is the attraction in real life. In porn, however, the attraction to anal is different for me. I’m more into the mindset of how it is not the norm, how I bet it feels good from the side of the penis-bearer, and what a nasty little slut she is. I’m attracted to the idea that she wouldn’t object.”

15. “Personally, I don’t understand some peoples’ obsession, when there’s a perfectly good vagina right next door. Only a few GFs over my long and varied love life were into it, and for them it was like an occasional naughty treat. On these occasions there’s an extra hotness factor added in mentally. As for the raw physical characteristics of tightness and friction, vaginal is better in the long run. I once had a GF who was down for it any time, and we both got bored of it really quickly TBH. On the other hand, a different GF had done some rotten things and we broke up; while making up months later we were in bed spooning naked when suddenly her ass cheeks then asshole started gobbling my cock like Pac-Man, a one-off event that was hotter than molten tungsten.”

16. “If a woman has a hole in her body that can accommodate a dick, a guy will want to fuck it. We aren’t that complicated.”

17. “The woman. Aesthetically I Love every aspect of a good-looking women, and I want as much of that woman as I can get. Plus nothing says I love you like allowing me to stick it anywhere I want. But honestly I prefer the usual hole a lot more.”

18. “OK. Imagine that you are a kid at school, and you get your school lunch every day. Every day the lunch lady gives you an apple and an orange, and then tells you not to eat the orange. So every day, you eat your apple, and leave your orange sitting on the tray. You love apples. Apples are fucking amazing, you love eating them every day. But every day, for weeks, for months, for years, while you’re eating that apple, there’s an orange right there, inches away, staring you in the face.You’ve never tasted an orange before, and you wonder what it’s like. Is it as good as an apple? Is it different or the same? Around you, you can see that a few other kids are eating their oranges; they seem to be happy about it. You have a friend who’s always going on about how awesome oranges are, how the orange he ate last week was spectacular. And you love your apple; you really do. But after years of that orange staring you right in the face, of watching other people eat their oranges and love them, you just want to eat the fucking orange and see what all the fuss is about.”

19. “It’s taboo, power, a unique feeling, and a little risk all in one.”

20. “It’s intense. But if you’re not into it, you wouldn’t understand it anyway. I have met a few women in my time that truly liked it and I think they liked it for the same reason. You can actually give a woman an orgasm during anal by stimulating her clitoris and the result can be quite complex and different than an orgasm from straight sex. I would never pressure a woman who didn’t want to do it. If they don’t want, they don’t want. And with the women who wanted to try it (for the first time) I’ve never tried to hurt her. You can go really slow and it’s not so bad at all for her. She’ll have a better experience that way and be more open to trying it again.”

21. “It’s very tight. Like, super tight. The pressure on your dick feels amazing. And the female ass is a beautiful thing. It must be experienced.”

22. “Because female ass is glorious and besides smashing my face into them I can’t help but want to shove my dick in too.”

23. “You know how blowjobs feel different than vaginal sex? Both totally awesome, obviously. Anal is the third installment of the trilogy. Different and still amazing. Plus, when a woman is into it, the feedback of the pleasure she gets as well is mind-blowing. It’s just adding another option, that happens to feel great.”

24. “For me at least it’s all mental. It’s just really ‘dirty’ and I find it awesome when she’s loving something like that. If she’s not into it then I won’t be either. Also I don’t think it feels particularly better, it’s just different.”

25.“It’s super simple to me: you’re giving me ALL of you and I crave that wholeheartedly.”

26. “You always want what you can’t have. There’s something incredibly powerful about a woman giving you permission to cross that final taboo frontier. Also it feels fucking AWESOME.”

27.“From a straight guy’s perspective: Like a lot of the previous comments, there’s an element of the taboo involved in it. Anal isn’t quite as accepted in ‘mainstream’ sexual discussions yet, and as such remains a bit out of reach for many curious individuals. Having already done anal on occasion with my girlfriend, the taboo is still there but has been transferred from a ‘mysterious and unknown’ sort of taboo to a ‘so rare as to be mystical’ taboo. On the pleasure side of things, it provides a nice change in sensation from vaginal, oral, and manual stimulation. And while it may not provide as much physical pleasure, its infrequency offsets that since it’s not something you’re typically used to like one of the above three. Also, the intimacy factor can’t be overstated. Because it’s such a rare occurrence for most guys (myself included), it carries a lot of weight when your girlfriend/wife/FWB/etc. gives you the opportunity. It requires more trust and communication than regular sex, and oftentimes your SO is sacrificing some of their comfort (and possibly dignity) to give you pleasure. It’s honestly both thrilling and humbling.”

28. “I mean…imagine you go to the same place for dinner every day but there is a smaller diner right behind it. Sooner or later your gonna want to try the other place…. can’t eat the same meal every night.”

29. “Psychologically it’s like the girl is a dirty whore, which is hot.”

30. It’s like cheating on your wife with her butthole. Also you get to goof up in there.”

31. “Anal feels entirely different from vaginal sex. You’ve got a few close sphincter muscles then it gets a lot more open. Anal is more about shaft stimulation than head stimulation so if makes for me at least and entirely different orgasm.”

32. “Taboo. Tight. And when she orgasms it spasms, which feels incredible.”

33. “Taboo. Anybody who says anything beyond that is just spinning their wheels, hoping to come up with a justification. We like fucking butts because you’re not supposed to fuck butts.”

34. “For me? I like dominating. I am very aggressive in bed normally (choking, spitting, hitting, hair pulling, name calling, degrading, etc…). Obviously with my consenting wife… so, anal is attracting because it’s another form of domination. Also, the moaning is completely different when I’m fucking her in the ass vs. vaginal.”

35. “Think of it like a big red button that you’re told not to touch but you want to touch it anyways. It’s a hole you’re not supposed to dick, but goddammit you’re gonna dick it anyways.”

36. I like it because it’s like clipping. Dick goes into her body, but I still get a perfect view of that vagina. Additionally, it’s a power trip. I haven’t met any girls who are into it off the bat, so coaxing them into something that they normally wouldn’t do is hot for me. No pressure, just teasing.”

37. “For me, it’s because it’s really tight. It’s a really tight hole that can be fully exposed, so you can really get in really deep, and you feel really connected to the woman on a primal level being so deep in her like that. I think it a way it’s the ultimate mark on a woman too. In somewhat of a dominating way. Something about the fact of her never forgetting you deep inside her primal area and letting yourself go inside her is extremely erotic. It’s kind of like imprinting on her. It’s also a woman giving her body fully to you. If you’re doing anal, then you probably have already done everything else. This woman is allowing you access to her all her holes and that’s really hot for a man. I’ve heard in a scientific sense, that the more ways a woman receives a man’s cum, the more likely she is to get pregnant by him. For example, women who swallowed a man’s cum were more likely to get pregnant by him later. They hypothesize it’s due to her body adapting and recognizing his cum when they receive it in different ways. So I think there is a primal, biological reward system for a man to want to be with a woman in all ways and mix with her completely.”

38. “It’s the one thing that makes you even more of an alpha male than you already are.”

39. “Many factors. Anus has a different texture and feel to it. It’s another option besides oral and vaginal. Sometimes you just want to mix it up and it’s nice to have a third option. The woman willing to take on pain for your pleasure is incredibly selfless and sexy. It doesn’t always hurt but it can even with proper technique and lube. Her willingness to do that for you is a big turn-on. It also means no chance of babies either. So less tension of things possibly going wrong and having a major life change.”

40. “When we do anal, I can finger her and feel my own cock, which is a really interesting feeling, I gotta say.”

30 Women Confess What Anal Sex Is Really Like

Anal Sex Stories

A survey of anal sex stories from woman that runs the gamut — from woman that love butt play to other woman that if a guy wants anal too much it’s a deal breaker. 

1. “I personally did not enjoy trying anal, I thought it hurt like a bitch and it made me feel extremely uncomfortable. It almost made me feel like I had a pit in my stomach. I wanted him to stop the whole time, but I was too scared to say anything until he asked me.” Michelle, 24

2. “The first time I had anal it was an accident. His dick slipped and went in my ass when he was penetrating. I was kind of confused because it felt tighter, but since we were having normal sex first and he didn’t warn me he was going to put it in my ass I honestly couldn’t tell until he said ‘oops.'” – Bridgette, 25

3. “Anal is phenomenal. It really is another option to intensify your sex life as long as you’re open to it.” Melissa, 30

4. “The guy I was hooking up with at the time had a huge dick so I was REALLY nervous about letting him try, but I eventually let him. He put a ton of lube on and it made it a little easier, but it still felt like my asshole was ripping. I’ve done it with guys with smaller dicks and it felt much better. Bigger is not better in terms of anal, at least in my case.”Samantha, 28

5. “My husband begged me to try anal for so long and I finally gave in because we made a deal. Now we regularly have anal, not every time we have sex because that really hurts your butt hole, but we throw it in there to keep things interesting and we both thoroughly enjoy it.”Carly, 36

6. “I actually prefer anal sex. Everyone has their “thing” and mine is anal sex. I love the way it makes me feel, almost dirty, like I’m being a bad girl and going against what everyone says I shouldn’t do.” – Katie, 25

7. “Anal was AWFUL. I would never do it again. It hurt so bad and I’m so embarrassed but after he pulled his dick out a little poop came out. I was absolutely mortified and I will never do it again in my life.” – Cassandra, 21

8. “I tried anal and it was okay. I wouldn’t ask someone to shove their dick in my ass that’s for sure, but I also wouldn’t yell at someone for accidently slipping it in back there. It just didn’t do anything for me. I guess I’m more of a traditional kind of girl.” – Rachael, 25

9. “My old boyfriend actually broke up with me because I asked him to try anal. It’s okay because he sucked in bed anyways and he wasn’t open to ANYTHING. I’ve heard a mix about it, but I’ve always been open to trying new things in bed to keep my sex life interesting. Apparently he thought it was weird, which is fine because my current boyfriend and I love it.” – Bella, 31

10. “The first time I ever did anal I actually did it to please my boyfriend because he had been begging me to try it. Turns out I actually enjoyed it myself and now it’s part of our routine. (Tip: If you’ve never done it before have him finger your ass first, it helps.)”– Riley, 23

11. “If you want to do anal you have to lube up, go hard and go fast because to me anal is not something that should be nurtured. Doggy style is the most effective way to feel it if you’re looking for depth.” – Sara, 28

12.“I tried anal and NEVER again. It was one of the worst experiences of my life. I don’t know if the guy just didn’t know what he was doing or didn’t care if he hurt me, but I started crying and made him stop. Nothing will ever enter my backdoor again.” – Lexi, 20

13.“Anal is only shitty the first minute (pun not intended), but once you get warmed up you’re golden. It really doesn’t hurt that bad, as long as he doesn’t go too deep. Anal is not intended for depth in my opinion.” – Danielle, 28

14.“Anal makes me feel closer to him, therefore I enjoy it more. It makes me feel like it’s the closest we could ever possibly be no matter how tight he is holding me. It’s something I can’t explain and that right there makes anal worth it because of the intimacy factor.” – Jackie, 34

15.“I would pay to never have another person ask me if I want to have anal again. It was so painful I could have burst into tears, if you want my advice don’t do it. Stick to the vagina, it feels much better and that’s where it’s meant to be in my opinion.”– Ruth, 29 

16. “I legit dumped a guy over the question of anal. He said he expected the woman he loved to ‘go there’ with him. The fucked up part is that I could sense it was actually important to him—like he would be measuring my affection in anal terms—so I bounced out of the relationship for good.” — Bethanny, 27

17. “Finger in the bum? Fine. But a whole dick? No thank you! Never. Not happening. Ever.” — Theresa, 24

18. “Once I was having sex with my boyfriend of two years and he tried to slip it in the back door and position it all as a happy accident. As if I would fall for something like that! I wish he’d just been honest and asked me if I was willing to try it. The sneakiness is what really turned me off. Obviously, we’re not together anymore.” — Fay, 32

19. “Every single part of your body is a potential pleasure center. The sooner women realize that, the more sexually satisfied they’ll be. I pride myself on exploiting every cavity I’ve got to the fullest, butthole included.” — Gretta, 27

20. “A dude I was dating a few years ago asked me about anal on our THIRD date. Can you believe that? I’m no prude, but I’m not doing anything in bed that involves anyone’s pooper until I at least meet your parents, okay?” — Emma, 28

21. “I had anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time a month ago. It was my five-year anniversary gift to him and it wasn’t great for me, but I let him keep going because I’m good for my word. When he pulled out after what seemed like a decade, a little poop came out. I was pretty mortified, but my boyfriend made me feel okay about it. I don’t think we’ll be doing it again any time soon, but the experience brought us closer together.” — Lilly, 29

22. “My vagina’s awesome. I see no reason to open up any other entrances.” — Abigail, 25

23. “An old boyfriend once accused me of homophobia because I refused to have anal sex with him. In reality, I have a health issue that makes that kind of penetration really painful. Anal’s just not an option for me. Neither is dating a misguided loser who can’t understand that.” — Elvia, 26

24. “My husband waited until we were married to propose anal. I didn’t say no outright, but I started encouraging him to pop in the bathroom every time I was going number two so he could get a whiff of what goes on down there. Passive aggressive, maybe, but I think it’s working. He hasn’t made another request lately.”— Jennifer, 34

25. “Truthfully, I like it. I resisted trying it for ages, but once I did, I realized that it’s a great change in pace. If you relax into it, it’s amazing. You just have to be calm enough to unclench, you know?” — Olivia, 31

26. “My long-term boyfriend and I decided to try anal about a year ago just to spice things up or whatever. It took about two seconds for me to start screaming ‘Get the fuck out!’ I don’t care what anyone says. It felt like I was taking a massive shit and that is NOT a sensation I want to associate with lovemaking.”— Quinn, 30

27. “Anal sex is amazing if you let it be. Gay men have, like, the best sex ever. Everyone knows that. So get involved, already. It’s just another way to enjoy your body.” — Nina, 31

28. “I’m down for anal as long as we have vaginal intercourse first so I can get off. It’s a round two thing in my book. If a guy can’t get it up again, that’s his problem.” — Asha, 26

29. “My husband and I were wasted one night a few weeks back and when he went to plunge his dick inside me, he penetrated my ass instead of my vaj. I freaked out for a second, but then I told him to go a little deeper and we ended up having full-on anal. It wasn’t the best sex of my life, but it was decent.” — Ruby, 30

30. “No man or woman is every getting close to my butt like that. I can barely handle the stinky reality that is my asshole.”— Hadley, 22

24 People Reveal The Secret To Excellent Anal Sex

Anal Sex Stories

Tips from guys and girls with anal sex experience. (For first time anal tips just for woman, check out our guide here.) 

1. “It’s not a hole. It’s a human being. The better you connect the better it will be.” – Rob, 36, New York

2. “You really, really, REALLY have to use lube. The butt cavity does not moisten itself! That said, I do love the feeling when my guy fingers my hole without any lube or just a little bit of spit. So good.” – Jason, 24, Austin

3. “I don’t have any secrets per se but I know one thing: guys, your dick is not a sword. You can’t just ram that sucker in!” – Kyle, 29, San Francisco

4. “Anal sex is all about RELAXATION. If you’re too tense it’s as painful for the top as it is for you. The best way to relax is to breathe, especially when he’s entering you.” – Alex, 35, New York

5. “I feel like a bad gay because I never really enjoyed bottoming until I figured out which positions work best for me. Not all positions are for everyone – everybody’s different.” – Chris, 40, Chicago

6. “The best way to start anal is when you’re on your stomach and he’s kind of on top of you, like laying on top of you and sliding it in. Probably the most relaxed position to be in. It helps if he kisses your neck, ears, caresses your head. It helps it feel good as soon as the initial “ouch” is over.” – Stefanie, 22, Ann Arbor

7. “Guys with big dicks are really scary to have anal with, even vaginal. But you just have to tell him to go slow if he wants the goodies.” – Courtney, 30, London

8. “Anal sex isn’t something you can just jump into in the same way you can just jack off or do oral. You have to have foreplay, work up to it.” – Sam, 41, Dallas

9. “You know what? Some people don’t even like anal sex and they just pretend to because they think it’s what they’re supposed to do. Don’t pretend it feels good if it doesn’t. Either stop or communicate with your partner. You can still have sex even if no anal is involved at all.” – Dax, 20, New York

10. “It’s actually not supposed to hurt. Well, maybe at the beginning because suddenly there’s a dick inside of you. But really it’s supposed to feel good. If it doesn’t then something’s wrong.” – Jake, 29, New York

11. “You have to tell your partner how you like it. Communicate if you want good butt sex.” – Melissa, 38, Philadelphia

12. “So many guys know what they know about sex from porn but my ass is just not stretched out that way. You have to pace yourself. You can’t really do wham-bam-thank-you-maam when you go anal.” – Brian, 30, New York

13. “I’ve always felt that anal was best when you get the angle right!” – Daniel, 30, New York

14. “It’s always a good idea to explore the area on your own. Like get a dildo you know you can take (but with a thick base so you don’t lose it in your ass!) and practice.” – Alexandra, 27, Minneapolis

15. “Focus on what feels good. Butt bumping is not as automatic as vaginal so you have to focus on what feels good to you. Don’t focus on what’s weird, otherwise you’ll get tense.” – Katie, 33, Boston

16. “I can’t believe I have to say this but CLEAN YOUR ASSES. You’d be surprised how many gay boys I’ve met who raise their asses in the air like, ‘Rim me, rim me,’ and then you get ready to go all in and they are just nasty. How can you call yourself a bottom and yet your booty is always funky? Just no.” – Jessie, 35, Los Angeles

17. “Definitely use protection with someone whose sexual history you don’t know and for any hook ups. But if you’re in a committed relationship with someone you trust, bare feels so good.” – Ben, 23, Chicago

18. “Here’s the secret to anal sex: you have to WANT it. You have to really, really want to get fucked in your ass.” – Chris, 33, New York

19. “Anal sex feels good, don’t get me wrong, but so much about it is in your brain. If you’re gay it’s this thing of being “fucked,” feeling another dude’s warm dick inside of you, knowing his dick is inside of your ass going in and out, watching him thrust, seeing how hot he looks when he sweats, thinking to yourself, ‘Yeah, fuck me!'” – Jason, 38, New Yor

20. “Save your bed sheets. Do it on a dark towel – a butt sex towel!” – Etienne, 34, Las Vegas

21. “If you worry too much about it hurting then it’s going to hurt.” – Dustin, 19, Saint Louis

22. “Focus on each other.” – Ashley, 33, New York

23. “If a guy doesn’t rim me then anal’s a no go.” – Parker, 30, New York

24. “Santorum is real.” Grey, 29, New York.

11 Men Share Exactly What Having Anal Sex With A Woman Feels Like


In this section, we survey men on Reddit on the sensation of having anal sex with a woman. 

1. “Tighter the first inch or so, loosens up beyond that point. Actually feels just very slightly warmer. Also had kind of a grainy feel, hard to explain. Oh, and use WAY MORE LUBE THAN YOU THINK YOU NEED. Get a lube shooter off of amazon if you can.”

2. “Here’s my thoughts as someone who really enjoys giving anal. From a purely physical standpoint it’s not better than PIV or a blow job. PIV is tighter, warmer, wetter, the physical sensations from PIV are just better all around. The pleasure I get from anal is probably like 75% (pulled appropriately from my ass) mental. In large part the pleasure comes from the dominance I feel from the fact that she’s letting me do this to her. I like that it hurts her a bit. I like that it’s something good girls aren’t supposed to do. I like that she lets me do it anyway just to please me.”

3. “A pussy is like a muscle tunnel. A butthole is like a long balloon filled with ground beef with a few rubber bands at the opening.”

4.Tight almost to a fault at first then…. nothing. Personally for me it’s just mental, PIV feels much better, like 500% better but sometimes it’s nice just to have that visual and mental that comes with anal. Since it’s a bit uncomfortable for her, i.e I can’t stroke like we do with PIV it’s hard for me to orgasm during anal so if we do it it’s the last 5 minutes or so of a session.”

5. “I think it feels tighter but smoother.Vagina is looser but more ridged.”

6. “I’m probably an outlier on the spectrum of “tightness” that I enjoy, in that I actually don’t enjoy a tight pussy. I don’t jerk off with a tight squeeze – very, very light in fact with a LOT of lube. That being said, the best blow job for me is the kind where the woman’s mouth is loosely mocking a wet, slimy cave that you park a Prius in. I just want to feel the sliding and wetness. When it comes to pussy, I love it, but my favorite is pounding my GF with a large dildo (which she loves) and being the last to be inside of her, after she’s all loosened up. You know that old saying, ‘It’s like throwing a hotdog down a hallway’? I actually prefer that. I’m not sure why, psychologically, but it just feels great to me to be flopping around in there. So, when it comes to anal, all of those descriptions are exactly what its like. It’s open. It’s wet (with a lot of lube, of course), it’s slimy, and it’s unconstricted.”

7.It’s tighter around the actual butthole itself then less so deeper in. I’ve tried it with my partner a few times, but have never managed to cum from it because it doesn’t stimulate the more sensitive parts on the end of my penis enough. You might find that you enjoy it less then PiV, but you may also find that the hotness of it does it for you.”

8.There’s more variation between butts than there is between vaginas, so your mileage may vary. Some butts feel very much like a vagina and are naturally clean and clear. Others are significantly looser and smoother once you’re past the sphincters (‘like fucking a glass of water’).”

9. “Dating a girl who loves anal and we do it almost always. Lube is necessary for it to be comfortable on her end and relax. She can cum from anal penetration alone, so I do it when I want her to cum.How it feels. Very tight at the point of entry, then very warm and soft around. I personally really enjoy the feeling of it. Being tighter for me, it basically jerks off my dick as a I fuck her in the ass, causing me to cum usually pretty quickly also. We tend to do so missionary with one leg over my shoulder. It feels great to us, we both cum super fast once we start that, and simultaneously finishing at the same time your partner does is such a good feeling. I also freely just cum inside there too.In my opinion, anal is great.”

10. “For me it just flat out feels better. More shaft stimulation and just the right amount of a soft pillowy hug from her bowels on my head.”

11. “Probably my favorite part of anal is the initial insertion. With a vagina you can find the entry in the dark and it’s usually the easiest thing to slide in there. With her ass.. well, there’s the preparation involved which at a minimum should include lubing it up. It’s an awesome visual for the guy. I’ve had my penis bounce off her asshole when trying to insert it sometimes. It’s fun. I think also since I like having my ass played with, it’s a relatable experience.. I kind of put myself in her place during the act. It’s also really naughty to think of cumming inside her that way and it oozing out. The girls I have done anal with all wanted it at least a second time.”

January Nelson is a writer, editor, and dreamer. She writes about astrology, games, love, relationships, and entertainment. January graduated with an English and Literature degree from Columbia University.