Ioana Casapu

Give yourself permission to reject calls and leave text messages unattended. The world won’t die. 

Ask the right questions. To your mentor, your coach, or on the Internet.

There’s something ultimately so comforting and refreshing about shared silences. 

We idealise romantic love in a way that can be damaging, it creates this fantasy that can’t really be lived up to. 

Oh, it sounds terrible that you can’t pay me. I bet you can’t even pay for this ginormous Chai Latte. Quick, let’s run before the bill comes!

The person you love should be able to cater support when you need it, especially when you’re too down to ask for it.

You can’t deal with hangover anymore.

People are more likely to break-up in the first 3-5 months of a relationship.

“Be yourself. You don’t have to try to be like someone else. We like you for being authentic.”

You’ll always think you have time.

This is a picture I did not take of you and me, fighting the last world war in our little room at 3rd floor.

2. When you think you’re on such a dry spell that your vagina’s depressed.

14. You will miss people you didn’t think you loved, and you will love people who won’t miss you back.

11. You feel you’re giving away too much (and getting back too little).

“Usually you do not get what you deserve, you get what you get.”

Jealousy is natural, and it will happen between you and your best friend.

“As long as it’s consensual – let them eat cake!”

“That I will not marry the love of my life.”