This Is The Kind Of Guy You Should Give Up On

A guy you should give up on
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Give up on the guy who needs time to figure out whether he wants to date you or whether he wants to stay just friends so that he can keep his options open.

Give up on the guy who takes hours to answer you back, even though you come running every time that he needs you.

Give up on the guy who keeps saying that you should go out for drinks soon instead of naming an actual time and place.

Give up on the guy who tells you how much he misses you, but never makes an effort to see you.

Give up on the guy who only talks to you over snapchat because even texting you is too big of a commitment for him.

Give up on the guy who only remembers how much he likes you after you post an attractive Instagram picture.

Give up on the guy who only wants to see you when you are both drunk.

Give up on the guy who invites you over at the last second because he didn’t know if he would have time for you until he realized that everyone else was too busy to see him.

Give up on the guy who takes forever to answer back when you tell him about work or class, but will write back ASAP if you talk about showering or sex.

Give up on the guy who treats you like shit, apologizes the next day, and then goes right back to doing what he pretended to be sorry about.

Give up on the guy who has a girlfriend that he swears he is going to leave soon, even though it still hasn’t happened.

Give up on the guy who posts on his social media while you’re still waiting for a text back.

Give up on the guy who makes bullshit excuses about why it took so long to answer your messages and why he had to cancel plans all of a sudden.

Give up on the guy who never gives you an actual answer when you ask about where your relationship is heading.

Give up on the guy who spends more time staring at his phone than staring at you.

Give up on the guy who turns every conversation sexual and leads you straight into his bedroom whenever you hang out.

Give up on the guy who likes every one of your Instagram pictures, but won’t put in much more effort than that.

Give up on the guy who acts like he likes you one day and then acts like he couldn’t care less about you the next day.

Give up on the guy who thinks that he can pick and choose when to pay attention to you instead of treating you well consistently.

Give up on the guy who you have been putting effort into impressing for so long, but still haven’t gotten anywhere with. The guy who might like you a little, but not enough. The guy who is never going to become your boyfriend, no matter how badly you want it to happen. TC mark

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