The Best Relationship Of Your Life Will Be With A Strong Girl

A strong girl in a relationship
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She will never let you give up on yourself.

She is passionate. Determined. Stubborn. Once she gets an idea in her head, she is going to go through with it. She is going to cross every item off her bucket list and achieve each one of her dreams. More than that, she will push you to do the same. She will pick you up whenever you’re down, encourage you whenever your hope wavers. She will make sure that you both live out the lives you’ve always wanted.

She will do everything she can to keep the relationship strong.

She isn’t the kind of person who gives up at the first sign of struggle. If you two get into an argument or realize you want separate things from the relationship, she will try to come to a compromise. She will always search for a solution instead of giving up on you. She will do anything within her power to fight for you.

She will inspire you to become a better person.

When you see how hard she works to reach her goals, you will want to match her enthusiasm. You will want to try just as hard as she does to create a life that you can both be proud of living. She will motivate you to become the best version of yourself.

She will help you through the toughest times.

She will be there for you. Always. When you get sick. When you lose your job. When a beloved family member dies. She will hold you close while you cry. She will wipe away your tears. She will be strong enough for the both of you.

She will encourage you to chase after new experiences.

She is spontaneous, adventurous. She will bring you to places you have never gone before. She will make you try foods you have never heard of and take trips most people only dream about. Hand in hand, she will help you discover a side of yourself that you never knew existed. She will help you see the world in an entirely new way.

She won’t need you attached to her side every hour of every day.

A strong girl will give you the space you need. She won’t mind when you want to go out to the bar with the boys or spend a few hours being left alone after a stressful day. She understands the need for privacy — and since she has a life of her own, she won’t mind finding something else to do while you’re otherwise occupied.

She will get you excited about the future.

When you date a strong girl, you won’t waste time questioning the meaning of the universe. You will just enjoy life. You will be excited to wake up in the morning and see her smile. You will be excited to hear about her day and tell her about yours. You will be excited to spend the rest of your life with her, because everything feels a little better when she’s around. TC mark

The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved.

You don’t have to solve your whole life tonight. You just have to show up and try. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. You’ll figure out the rest along the way.

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