Having your heart broken sucks but there’s one thing I learn every time; it’s leading you somewhere.
It means you keep going. You keep growing.
Plain and simple, egomaniacs are mean people.
Remember that true attractiveness only comes when you give the illusion that you don’t care.
Libra: He actually hates confrontations and issues that’s why he opt to leave you hanging.
Virgo: Talk to strangers. Meet new people. Take risks. Don’t pass up the chance to make new connections with people. Because this time might just be the right one.
You do not cry. Big girls don’t cry. You narrow down your diagnosis to either gas pain, food poisoning, or your real doctor’s favorite, a virus.
I’m no longer the same person as before.
These five powerful and practical tips can help save your life after emotional abuse.
I recently received this question from a friend. “I think my biggest creative roadblock is that I get super fired up for creative projects every once in a while.
You made me feel. You hear me even when I do not speak.
“Don’t drop hints. I will not get your hints. Just fucking say something.”
Thigh high suede boots for your dog. $872 (per leg).
Leo: You’re too busy taking your 102nd selfie right at midnight because you thought a pic with confetti would get a ton of likes on Instagram.
Sagittarius: Put yourself out there, unapologetically.
The various scenes in your life may demand you to be someone you never intended to be. Although you may have been timid and quiet in the previous scenes, your new situation may require you to lead and speak boldly. Each situation is different.
Everyone loves a $20 dress at Forever 21, but you’ll probably only wear it once and then give it away. What’s the point? Why not make a more sustainable, cost friendly, and ethical purchase?
Capricorn: A boyfriend who brings a softness to your life without ever trying to change your ambition or focus.
I heal by letting go of the mistakes, forgiving myself, and holding on to the lessons.
Let’s say this loud, so even the people in the back can hear us. RAPE. IS. NOT. FUNNY.
But when that white man in the back of an Uber pool parted his lips to call me a “n*****,” I just wasn’t ready.
When he tells you you’re the one, it doesn’t scare you.
You don’t know the current slang kids are using nowadays, and if you do know it, you don’t feel cool enough to say it. The word lit doesn’t roll of your tongue like it does a 21 year old’s.
Last year, when I felt the beginning of my all-too-familiar seasonal depression trying to make its way into my home like an uninvited distant relative, I decided something needed to change. So, I just said “fuck it.” I threw open my door and invited that bitch in to make some Christmas cookies.
“You will never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine.”
I felt paralyzed when my mother uttered the words, “He died today.”
So from women everywhere. We don’t owe you anything. I don’t owe you my time, I don’t owe you a conversation, and I don’t owe you respect you’re not giving me.
What happens when your heart isn’t broken, but it doesn’t feel full either?
The relationships that scare me these days are the ones that hurt. But the one that will heal me. The ones where I suddenly have something to lose.
He decided it was time to “speak up on behalf of all heterosexual males” and listed off a number of the women had had slept with over the years.
“I made my college girlfriend scream so much from sex that a downstairs neighbor threatened to call the cops.”
I’m slowly learning that it’s okay to color outside the lines. It’s okay that the picture you’re drawing doesn’t exactly mirror the picture you had in mind. It’s okay to change your art as you grow.
It wasn’t until recently that I’ve started to genuinely feel that He is watching over me, guiding me through the confusing and dark times; guiding me towards the light to find strength and courage.
I give myself full permission to be quiet. I might be enjoying a conversation while having little to add to the discussion. It might be a topic that I find interesting but that I don’t know much about, so I don’t judge myself for not contributing. I make sure that I don’t judge myself at all when I have nothing to say.
‘Tis the season to inadvertently offend everyone with your holiday promotions.
Here’s to all courageous lovers. The brave, willing to lay one’s soul bare, naked and vulnerable. But never mistaken for weak, we are secure in finding strength from that within ourselves.
Aries: He’s always finding new and exciting ways to make each day of your relationship feel like it’s the first. No matter how long he’s been with you, he loves you more and more every day.
It’s one thing to be loving to yourself when things are going well and you feel centered and peaceful inside. It’s quite another to love yourself when you feel panicked and freaked out.
If you are too afraid to love — too afraid that you will get hurt — should you try to heal the fears before trying to love?
The heartache from losing my wife is unequivocal to anything I’ve felt before.
You can’t pretend to be just friends when you know you will never be satisfied with that, when you know you will always want more.
I’m writing to tell you that I am not the enemy, and neither is he. Coming from me, that may mean nothing, but I want you to hear my side of the story.
You may not be able to control rejection, but you certainly can control the way you mentally and emotionally respond to rejection.
A relationship is little more than a partnership built upon support. Sure, those butterflies that you’re feeling are important, as is the physical chemistry that you share. But there’s nothing more important than the way you two support each other
A wandering, lonely body in search for another.
Don’t get me wrong, heartbreak still hurts. It hurts no matter who you are.
Our trip to North Korea was conceived much like all decent impromptu jaunts, off the back of a cheap flight promotion. In truth, a detour had always been on the cards, the aim of the game on this occasion was a visit to one of the world most reclusive nations, North Korea.
You feel like you are fumbling through adulthood, pretending to have it together when you are secretly falling apart.
I will be 28 next week, and I just moved back in with my parents. I am once again back to square one in regards to my relationships and my future, and I have no idea what to do with myself.
She takes risks. She believes in second chances. She hasn’t given up on herself yet — and she isn’t going to give up on you either.