Lie there. Chat. Cuddle. Engage in a bit of foreplay. Whatever it is, just be with each other. You don’t need to always be doing stuff — you should be able to enjoy each other’s company while doing absolutely nothing.
If your man doesn’t come to you with his problems, then he doesn’t see you as his support. And being each other’s support system is the whole reason why human beings partner up in the first place.
Calling it quits is easier when it was never love. Yet, even then many of us find it difficult to let go. It’s never more difficult, however, than when the person you’re considering giving up on is someone you did love.
The truth is that you can’t miss someone who’s always there — and you want this person to miss you.
I’d say to each his own, but you’ll regret not being capable of appreciating a woman for the right reasons.
You can’t hope that something happens on its own because it won’t. Life doesn’t work that way.
Sometimes, the nicest guys are the shyest. They don’t see themselves as being the aggressive type, so they have a difficult time doing things outside their comfort zones.
I understand that you believe you can change him for the better, but the truth is that you can only hope that’s the case. You hope you can change him, because you love him. I get that.
But just because he’s never told you that he loves you doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you.
I may never get over you, but truth be told, I don’t want to get over you. I want this new sort of love I have for you to stay with me. I want it to stay with me as I continue on with my life, as I accomplish my goals, as I find someone new to share my life with.