(March 21st to April 19th)
You’ll get your shit together by really focusing all of your energy on one thing at a time. You have so many different dreams and aspirations, but trying to achieve them all at once means you often start what you can’t finish. In 2018 you’ll learn to take one step at a time. You can’t do everything all at once.
(April 20th to May 21st)
You’ll get your shit together by finally accepting some things are just out of your control. It’s not always your fault, and in 2018 you’ll learn to be a little less hard on yourself and it will really help you be an overall better person.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
You’ll get your shit together by finally making important decisions that you’ve been back and forth on for basically ever. It’s okay to have no clue what the best decision will be, but you kind of just have to make a choice and go with it. You’ll make mistakes and that’s okay, but you can’t spend your life in the in-between. If you mess up, you’ll learn.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
You’ll get your shit together by learning not to take things so personally. You’re the type of person to let your emotions get the best of you. You’re sensitive, which isn’t a bad thing, but you let your sensitivity ruin your life when you allow other people’s opinions and comments to affect you in only negative ways. It’s usually not people’s intention to make you feel bad, sometimes you’re just taking things too seriously, or too personally.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
You’ll get your shit together by learning sometimes you have to let other people do their job. You can’t do everything and be everyone. I know you think that you’ll do it better, faster, and more efficiently, but sometimes you have to trust other people’s capabilities. Have a little faith in someone other than yourself, and you’ll be pleasantly surprised.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
You’ll get your shit together when you stop second guessing yourself and just go for it. Usually it’s good to think before you act on things, but it’s not impulsive to do something you’re passionate about. If you’re feeling that gut-instinct, follow it, and believe in yourself when you do.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
You’ll get your shit together when you start sticking up for yourself. If someone says something you don’t agree with, don’t agree with them. It’s okay to say no, and it’s most certainly okay to stand by your opinions and beliefs. You don’t have to be so agreeable all of the time.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
You’ll get your shit together when you finally start trusting people. Don’t let the past harden you. Not everyone will lie to you, and not everyone will mislead you. Let go of the people who let you down, and learn to trust the people who are trying to prove they’re worth it.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
You’ll finally get your shit together when you stop making promises you can’t keep. You like to make people happy, but you’ll end up disappointing them if you promise them the whole world and only give them half.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
You’ll get your shit together when you stop expecting the worst from people and from life in general. You’re always prepared for worst case scenario, which might not be a bad thing, but it’s seriously stressing you out. Learn to take things as they come, it’s great to be prepared, but the world is not always going to fall apart like you think it is.
(January 21st to February 18th)
You’ll get your shit together when you take the time to focus on yourself. You love helping others, and you’re constantly with other people, but you lose yourself in the mix of trying to please everyone else. Take some much needed me-time, it’s time for you to help yourself.
(February 19th to March 20th)
You’ll get your shit together when you stop trying to escape reality. It’s good to take a break every once in a while. Life is tiring and hard, but you don’t need me to tell you that your problems will be waiting for you after you return from wherever you ran away to. Your problems will only disappear when you decide to deal with them.