How they discuss their last breakup can be a window of insight into their readiness to invest in you.
Your life demands a certain level of prudence and caution and it demands that you not settle for less just to avoid loneliness.
I realize that I oftentimes built relationships with people based on my desperation and not my destination.
Truth is, it’s hard having to be your own safety net and having to catch yourself at every turn.
After coming face to face with these realizations, I emerged a stronger, wiser and better man.
By traditional standards, I would be considered beautiful.
Every part of me wants to call you and ask how you are doing and really mean it.
In a healthy relationship, our goal is to make our partners feel like they are valued, respected, cherished, wanted and loved.
Foolishly I spent my twenties haphazardly giving my love and assistance to the wrong people.
It has more to do with another person’s unresolved issues, hurts, wounds, fears and past experiences. It speaks more to them not being at a place in their lives where they feel secure and good about themselves.