Luis Pabon

Your friends are supposed to be your lifeline, your port in the storm, your healing. They are supposed to grant you peace, not be the architects of your agony.

You are always the one that has to do all the calling, all the texting, all the reaching out.

How they discuss their last breakup can be a window of insight into their readiness to invest in you. 

Truth is, it’s hard having to be your own safety net and having to catch yourself at every turn.

Every part of me wants to call you and ask how you are doing and really mean it.

In a healthy relationship, our goal is to make our partners feel like they are valued, respected, cherished, wanted and loved.

It has more to do with another person’s unresolved issues, hurts, wounds, fears and past experiences. It speaks more to them not being at a place in their lives where they feel secure and good about themselves.

Stop giving package deals to men who only deserve happy meals.