Goin’ Down In Style: 10 Women Give Tips On How To Eat Pussy

Goin’ Down In Style: 10 Women Give Tips On How To Eat Pussy
Flickr / taylordolls
Found on AskReddit.

1. Start like a fluttering butterfly. Finish like a bulldog eating a bowl of oatmeal.

“Start like a fluttering butterfly. Finish like a bulldog eating a bowl of oatmeal.”

soup-kitchen


2. Soft, not hard.

“Guys tend to go at it too hard, I guess in the theory that pressure is more exciting or because that’s how they like it on their cock. Hard licks or sucking doesn’t feel good to me, it gets into overstimulation and even pain. Light flickers, alternating with very gentle sweeps or circles… that’s the ticket. Also making sure that the woman is comfortable both physically and emotionally. Let her lie on her back, tell her how beautiful and hot her pussy is. Spend time kissing her and looking her in the eyes before going down. Touch her other places when you’re down there. I like a guy to caress my thighs, reach down to gently spread my knees apart further (very erotic), occasionally reach up to touch and squeeze my breasts. Murmur and smile occasionally to reassure her you like it and aren’t grossed out by her. If you’ve got the look and demeanor of martyrdom, no one’s going to have any fun.”

veleda


3. If she says ‘Don’t stop,’ DO NOT STOP.

“Start slow, start up top. Kiss her, slowly, then firmly—but like you have all the time in the world. Trail kisses from her mouth along her jaw to her ear, maybe take her earlobe in between your teeth. Make your way along her neck, kissing and licking at the sensitive spots—behind her ear, her pulse points, in between her collarbones. Move down slowly, take your time at her breasts, suck at her nipples, touch and caress her boobs. You can squeeze them (gently, unless she’s into otherwise) or gently bite her nipples if she’s into that stuff (but check first). Detour back up to her lips and kiss her; you want to get her aroused before you even get anywhere close to her lower lips.

Moving back down, kiss down her stomach, sucking under her navel, maybe kissing along the edge of her underwear. Let your hands roam over her butt, squeezing, maybe smacking it if she’s into that. Pull her panties down (put a pillow under her hips to help with the angle) and take a deep breath before you dive right in. If you’re doing your job well, she’ll likely be squirming a little now, maybe panting.

Skip the pearly gates for now, kiss along her thighs, moving upwards (start at the lower, go all the way up to the crease between leg and V). rake your fingers along her thighs—not hard, just so she can feel your excitement.

Start with a long, slow lick from her opening up to her clit. Go exploring—you want to mix up small, light strokes made with the tip of your tongue with broader, flat strokes. Don’t just lick up all her wetness, move it around with your mouth—especially to her clitoris! Try thrusting in with your tongue, and/or get a finger inside and curl it upwards, crooking it towards yourself in a ‘come hither’ motion (don’t try and get both fingers and tongue inside at the same time, I don’t think it’s possible. If you’re getting your fingers inside, play with her clitoris with your tongue). Lick at her clitoris, play with it (with your fingers and your tongue). Some girls like it if you suck on it. Some like it if you move the hood back and touch the bead (veryyyy lightly). Some like it if you just lick with varying amounts of pressure. Some are too sensitive to be touched there at all. You’ll figure it out. Establish a rhythm. Dive into her like you’ve never tasted something as good in your life. Thrust your fingers in and out, with the curl motion if you can manage but establish a rhythm. Listen to her cues—and if she says ‘don’t stop,’ do not stop. Do exactly what you were doing—not faster, not slower. Don’t mix it up too much if she seems into it. After she has climaxed, kiss her thighs, her stomach, maybe try and draw out her pleasure a bit (I’ll lay off the clit though, it becomes too sensitive sometimes).

In short, enjoy.”

all-you-need-is-love


4. Realize that it will be different each time, so learn to communicate.

“Ready for this advice? Every time you go down on her it will be different. Something that worked the time before may not work the next time and something she liked yesterday may be uncomfortable for her today. Some things she may always like, but if she’s anything like me, each day is different, and it’s always constant communication.”

ForgotDeoderant


5. EVERY PUSSY IS DIFFERENT.

“Every pussy is different. Let me repeat: EVERY PUSSY IS DIFFERENT. One style of tongue or the same place on the pussy or place on the clit is no guarantee that an orgasm will occur for every woman. Our pussies are not Coke machines where you put in a quarter and an orgasm falls out. You need to explore confidently, enthusiastically, and pay attention to her requests, breathing, noises etc. Asking is good when you aren’t finding your way.

We just like you doing something for us that feels good. The fact you want to do it is awesome. Some women don’t expect an orgasm but you’re going to have to assume we want you to try your hardest for as long as you can. 3 licks and 1 minute is pretty lame. I have kicked guys out of bed for that “are you ready?” after 30 seconds of pussy play. What a stupid question!”

Krakenzmama


6. LOCATE her clit and TARGET your tongue there!

“Don’t just close your eyes and go straight into licking everything like a blind kitten! Look at it, LOCATE her clit and TARGET your tongue there!”

__six__


7. Basically, make out with it.

“Hottest thing…basically, make out with the P.

Love it. Worship it. Tell it it’s pretty.”

pepsiicat


8. If you can’t find her clit, ASK.

“First… every girl’s privates are different. So here’s how you approach the art of cunnilingus:

Find her clit.

Use your tongue and slowly go around the edges of her vulva and labia. Use gentle and long strokes. Up and down. Kiss it. Suck it gently. Whatever. This is the foreplay of the foreplay, basically.

Eventually go around the clit and focus on it.

Maintain your pace.

Eventually go faster (this can be done depending on how they respond)

Once you are doing that trick with your tongue. DO NOT STOP. In some cases, you will have to use your fingers to spread her ‘lips’ to find her clit. And some girls like it if you finger them at the same time when you play with them with your tongue, but I suggest you only do that once you feel them getting wet (around the hole of their vagina.)

The best feeling in the world is when a guy takes his time down there and knows how to tease. And eventually gets to the good part which is the fast flick of his tongue against a girl’s clit. Gosh… that feels so damn good. And remember… if you can’t find her clit…you can just ask.”

WhosTheGirl


9. DON’T slobber your whole mouth/face over my vulva.

“DON’T slobber your whole mouth/face over my vulva. The worst is when men have beard stubbles and do this. It hurts and isn’t pleasurable in the least! Don’t suck my clit (although some women like this). Use the tip of your tongue and only use very little pressure at the beginning (maybe increase the pressure when she is properly aroused). The most common mistake is being too rough and putting too on much pressure.”

Kankeranke


10. Kiss every spot on her body (perhaps not literally EVERY spot), and work your way down to her hips.

“Kiss her—start with a sensual kiss on her lips. Kiss every spot on her body (perhaps not literally EVERY spot), and work your way down to her hips….

Take it slow—When you finally decide to show her mercy and end the teasing, start off with a few gentle licks around the lips. Take your time and work your way up to the rough stuff (if that’s what she’s into).

Swallow—You know what I’m talking about! If you’re doing it right, it will be inevitable that she will urinate in your mouth. Don’t be afraid. Encourage her. And when she does, give her the same courtesy you’d expect and swallow every drop.

Finish her off—If you don’t know where the clit is, LEARN! While the entire area qualifies as an erogenous zone for a woman, pay special attention to her clit. Massage it with your tongue and pay attention to her verbal and non-verbal languages. Do whatever gets the best reaction!”

Name Withheld TC mark

More From Thought Catalog