Kovie Biakolo

So how does one go about it? How does one attempt to remove notions of a personal attack when that is what one perceives?

You have to learn to be happy. Happiness is not something you can buy or earn, it is something you are and have; it is a state of mind.

I think that when you don’t fall in love with yourself, there is an expectation that the person you fall in love with, will fill the void of self-worth that is really up to you and I to fill for ourselves.

12. Type a long angry text. You don’t actually have to send the text to anyone but it’ll feel good just to get the words out.

Some people can’t be alone. They just can’t. In some minds, it is better to settle than to be alone.

Recognize that 99.9% of the people who read what you write, don’t really know you. So whatever they have to say about who you are and who you are not, is baseless.

I want to be married and have many children, all the while maintaining my identities as child of God, a daughter, a sister, and a good friend.

Shopping can be a relaxing experience especially when you’re not on a time crunch or have to be considerate of someone else’s whims. You get to decide how long you’re out, and which stores you want to visit, and try on as many clothes as you want.