Stay Single Until You Meet The Person Who Makes Love Easy

NickBulanovv

Stay single until you meet the person who makes you laugh until it hurts.

The one who heals any pain they didn’t cause from the past.

But more than that makes you forget about it.

The one who shows you love isn’t confusion or pain.

Stay single until you meet the person and you just know with confidence something is there.

And it’s not just confident in yourself but confident in the relationship.

The one who teaches you to trust someone other than yourself.

The person who calls you when they say they will.

The one who texts back never making you doubt them.

Stay single until you meet the person who shows up.

The one who respects you and treats you better than anyone before.

The one who builds you up and believes in you even if they are the only one.

The one who makes you sleep a little better at night because they are beside you.

The one you miss before you even say goodbye.

Stay single until you meet the person who says exactly how they feel about you and doesn’t fear it.

The one who not only introduces you to their family but makes you feel apart of it.

Stay single until you meet the person who looks at you across the room and it’s like a silent dialogue only you two can speak.

The person who knows how to make you feel better on a bad day.

The one whose presence makes you feel a little more whole.

The one who redefines what you thought love in the past was.

Stay single until you meet the person who makes you sure they want you in their future.

The one you look at and in their eyes you see the next 50 years.

The one who says I love you and you feel it in every bone.

The one you might fight with sometimes but you two never stop fighting for each other.

Stay single until you meet someone who makes you better.

The one who makes you happier than you ever thought you could be.

The one you think of when those songs come on. And you turn it up a little louder.

Stay single until you meet someone who is your best friend.

Your better half.

Your soulmate.

The person you can’t imagine unknowing or ever living without after meeting them.

Until then stay single. TC mark

Kirsten Corley

Kirsten is the author of But Before You Leave, a book of poetry about the experiences we struggle to put into words.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.

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