I know you’re going to look for meaning in this, just like you always look for meaning in everything else in your life. 

So let me tell you, fellow Advocate–I get it. I understand you. You feel things a lot. You feel things deeply.

From one INFJ to another, I know that you lead with your emotions.

I know you tend to wear your heart on your sleeve. 

When it comes to decisions, you lead with your heart more so than with your mind. Sometimes it can be scary and overwhelming, but you know that and you still show love for other people. That’s amazing…but remember to protect your heart, just in case.

Being passionate and lovey-dovey with someone is your thing. Casual hookups suck for you. I get it! You’d prefer to be surrounded by people who are just as passionate as you (if that’s even possible) and you work hard to get passion and romance out of someone.

I know you like to find meaning in your relationships.

You’re insightful and you like to see how people and events are connected. It’s easy for you to relate with people because you’re so sensitive and sympathetic. You have such a warm energy. Embrace it. You’re unique.

You like to take care of others and you want that compassion to be reciprocated, but if it isn’t, focus on YOU! Remember to take care of yourself every once in a while.

I know you tend to burn out easily and you need that time alone so you can recharge.

That’s understandable. Let that happen sometimes. Don’t let someone stretch you thin.

I know you’ll take this letter to heart. If there’s one last thing I should say, it would be to wholeheartedly love yourself. You’re an expert at doing things in love and with passion, so show it to yourself every once in a while.