If you can’t talk about it, you’re not ready to have it.
Maybe if I had known, I would have felt better. Certainly, I would not have been pushing myself so hard to fit in.
Fuck basing your healing on whether you “deserved it” or not. Shit happens to everyone — it’s random, it’s unfair, it’s disgusting. Your character does not make what happened to you more or less horrible.
People with healthy boundaries understand that nobody is obliged to hang around in the hopes that they will improve.
It is not about satisfying your curiosity.
Stop surrounding yourself with people who make you feel insecure.
Don’t let life pass you by. Don’t be passive.
Stop acting like “fairness” has anything to do with it and seek justice instead.
It’s your journey – how you take it is entirely up to you.