Katerina Lolita

The truth is, being “high maintenance” or a woman with high standards is rarely about being rude or abrasive – or entitled. It’s about having higher standards for what you want out of life – and that includes love.

At the time, I had been in the early stages of dating a few different men. One of my options from my roster that night was “Chad.” Chad was a cute 6’3 software engineer from Texas who also doubled as a comedian in his spare time. We were at a jazz club sipping on cocktails when I mentioned the idea – and I already had a tattoo in mind.

You’re intimidating. Even if you’re the sweetest little white witch around, you will make people nervous because you threaten every limiting belief about human power.

The truth is, it feels so good to be bad. It feels so good to become the woman I was always meant to be.

ISTJs would impose overly moralistic judgments on others that are contradicted by their own behavior behind closed doors. They would also abuse their power.

Every woman should try “dating like a man” at least once in their lives to get a taste of the freedom and excitement that have always been accessible to men.