January Nelson

ARIES: You need to leave your guilt behind. Stop feeling sorry about walking away from people who hurt you. 

ARIES: You’re always the one getting broken up with because you have low self-esteem. You never realize you deserve better.

You answer their messages — but you never send the first one. You agree to hang out with them whenever they set plans — but you’re never the one who thinks to invite them over. You make out with them — but you’re never the one initiating the affection.

CANCER: You invade their privacy. You snoop through their messages to make sure they aren’t cheating.

CANCER: You’re resilient. No matter how many times you get knocked down, you get up again. 

Oh don’t worry, they’re happy tears.

I assumed our friendship was only the first step toward a long, fulfilling, committed relationship. I had trouble telling the difference between people who were simply friends and people who were meant to become more.

VIRGO: You feel like your problems aren’t that bad. You feel like other people are going through much worse so you can’t complain. 

This might not be the real them — but it’s them right now.

Admit to your flaws. Apologize when you do something wrong. Don’t shift the blame. When you mess up, aim to learn a valuable lesson and become a better person.

Men initiate contact around 80% of the time in straight matchmaking, and if you are a woman looking to date other women and you simply initiate contact with another woman you have a good chance of success simply because it’s very very very common for women to match but then neither initiates contact.

TAURUS: You’re cautiously optimistic. You know the new year isn’t going to magically change anything, but you believe that things are going to start getting better for you soon.

LEO: You refuse to make the first move. You want the other person to chase you. 

You’re allowed to mourn what you’ve lost while looking forward to something better.

Life is basically a series of choices, usually the harder and the easier choice. Your only chance of coming out ahead is to reflexively choose the harder option.

LIBRA: Being complimented on aspects of their personality, like their soft heart or their giving nature. 

When you’re angry, you guilt trip your person. You make them feel like crap for hurting you.

I can pursue my dreams without worrying about not having enough time for someone.