Date Someone Who Thinks Your Clinginess Is Cute

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Don’t date someone who thinks you’re needy for calling him on the phone instead of texting. Who thinks you’re desperate for wanting to spend the entire weekend with him instead of just that Saturday.

Date someone who thinks your ‘clinginess’ is cute. Someone who wants you around all the time.

Date someone who doesn’t care if you double text. Triple text. Quadruple text. Someone who would love to hear from you fifty times per day, because you’re his favorite person in the world.

Date someone who doesn’t get frustrated when you whine about how long it’s been since you’ve seen him. Someone who complains with you, because he misses you as much as you miss him.

Date someone who finds it cute that you prefer to sit as close to him as possible. That you always want to be on his lap, have his hand in your hand, feel his body heat against your skin.

Date someone who invites you out with his friends, because he feels like something is missing when you’re not around. Someone who has a life of his own, who doesn’t need to spend every second of every day with you, but secretly wishes that he could.

Date someone who loves to cuddle and to hold you close. Someone who loves the feel of your bare skin. Who loves being close to you, whether it’s sexual or not.

Date someone who doesn’t mind it when you ask for updates to make sure that he’s still on the same page as you are, to make sure he’s still happy in the relationship. Someone who understands that sometimes you need to be reminded of your beauty, of your worth. That sometimes you need reminders that he cares.

Date someone who would never judge you based on how many texts you send in one day or how many times you say I love you. Someone who welcomes your affection. Who is thankful to have it and would never take it for granted.

Date someone who doesn’t think you’re needy or desperate or annoying. Someone who is happy that you love him so much, that appreciates how much you care.

Someone who understands the only reason you might come across as ‘clingy’ is because you love him so much. Because you want to spend as much time with him as possible.

Date someone who is just as attached to you as you are to him. Who loves you just as strongly as you love him. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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