Heartbreak is an inescapable part of life, but we can allow it to be a catalyst instead of a setback.
You let her go when you didn’t meet her half-way. When she reached out but you pulled away, when she tried to get closer and you distanced yourself, when she tried to understand you and you left her even more puzzled.
We already had maps drawn and tickets on our bedside tables, but this breakup was unforeseen—and permanent. Faced with the fear of traveling on our own, we boarded the plane to Bangkok together.
Say ‘no’ to ghosting. You can do this. Go out there and be ‘not shitty.’
Accept the woman you are without him. Accept that things will never work out with this one. Accept that your love is made for someone else. Someone you haven’t met yet, and someone you won’t have the chance of meeting if you stay hung up on this guy.
Without you in my life, love is not something I recognize anymore.
Maybe he’ll text you. It always seems innocent. A simple, “how are you?” perhaps. But you’ll remember how he destroyed you. Or, more appropriately, how he tried.
They end when you’re scared to show them how much you need them or how you can’t imagine your life without them. They end when the ego replaces the heart.
Today is the day that I saw through the fog for the first time and knew that it was all going to be okay. I have gathered all the bits of myself and put them back together correctly, all by myself.
Aries: He never viewed you as an equal partner, just someone whose love slowed him down.