INTJ: You’re single because: You over-analyze social interactions to the point where it seems easier to just avoid them altogether.
Because I’m going to miss you. Because you’re going to pop into my mind on a rainy Sunday evening when Bon Iver is humming in the background and I’ve poured myself a tall glass of wine and a whiff of your old cologne catches me suddenly off guard – lingering in the apartment like an unwanted house guest who was never invited to stay.
This is a break from your life, a deviation from your story, a silly side road that you went down just far enough to realize that it was time you turned back.
Tumblr is that weird friend you had in 7th grade that everyone else made fun of but you secretly hung out with after school and told all of your secrets to.
You fail to love yourself the way you want to be loved.
Because extroverted intuition and introverted feeling are the two main functions of ENFPs (and therefore the most readily apparent), quite a few stereotypes develop about how this type behaves and processes information.
What if we started again from the beginning – every first time, every slip-up, every speed bump that we hit along the way? What if we tried this time?
See, here’s the problem – Kaitlyn’s cool. She’s edgy. She’s the ultimate chill girl who hangs out with you and your guy friends and doesn’t cause unnecessary drama.
What are you doing now that is going to pay off later?
You have stayed when you wanted to leave. Held on when you wanted to give in. Been at ends with your own exhausted mind about what makes you happy because you do not want the things you were once taught to want.