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Have you ever met someone who assumed everyone had a crush on them regardless of the lack of evidence suggesting this? Your occasional smile is seen as an inevitable sign you’re falling in love with them. Your ability to respond to them the same way you do to everyone else is deemed a deep-seated infatuation – it can’t be the fact that you’re just a generally friendly person of course. You merely existing is you trying to “seduce” them. At least that is what the narcissist claims, even when they’re the ones who have been spending time and energy tracking your every move. Projection, much?

Chill is a word that other people are constantly using to describe me. It’s not a term I coined for myself. Growing up, I was deeply, inherently unchill.

Lack of self-love is probably the biggest hindrance to finding and having romantic love. When you don’t love yourself, how will you ever trust that anyone could actually love you?

Go back to the beginning. Retrace your steps and contemplate what went wrong. Wince as you remember laughing too loudly at his jokes that probably weren’t really that funny and responding to texts way too quickly.