Sabrina Bendory

This article is an exclusive chapter excerpt from 10 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men. Ask ten women what they want in a guy and you’ll get ten different answers.

Girls think that playing hard to get will make a guy like them, and being too available will turn him off. This isn’t true.

There are many differences between men and women, both in the way we’re designed physically and the way we process things emotionally. And I’m sure you’ve noticed that the way we view relationships is also very different.

Sometimes I wonder how certain situations would have unfolded had I learned certain lessons a bit sooner. Since I can’t go back and undo what’s been done, I’m going to share the relationship lessons I wish I’d known sooner.

The guys who liked me were the ones who clearly liked me.

If you woke up tomorrow with no fear, what would you do first?

I mean, there is a lot at stake when you put your heart on the line and you can end up wasting months, or years, of your life on a man who never intended to keep you around for the long haul.

Someone may be perfect for you, but they still won’t be a perfect person. And you’re not a perfect person. And the relationship won’t be perfect