An Open Letter To My Teenaged Self
You’ll save yourself from it eventually but gosh, that one’s going to take some serious work.
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Maybe Loving You Wasn’t A Complete Waste
What Everyone Did (And Didn’t) Tell Me About Losing A Loved One
Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate the outpouring of love and support that I got. I appreciate the things that people did for me and said to me in order to try to help.
10 Brutally Honest Reasons To Drop The Non-Committal Emotionally Unavailable Guy
If you’re spending 90% of your dating energy on a guy who is not putting in an equal amount of energy back, you’re wasting your time.
Don’t Waste Your Time Stuck In A One Way Relationship
Say goodbye to these people because if you continue in this cycle, you’ll end up saying goodbye to a part of yourself.
When You Finally Want To Stop Running
I want to plant roots but I will do it gradually, I will do it for myself, and I will do it on my own terms.
High
I bloomed when you held me,
The comfort between your arms
Felt like a warm enough place
To let my guard down
An Open Letter To The Man I Lost To Suicide
Here’s Your Hottest Sex Fantasy, According To Your Zodiac Sign
SCORPIO: He stands before you fully clothed in his business suit. Item by item, you command him to undress….
21 Undeniable Signs That You’re Trashy As Hell
If You Could Have A Conversation With Your Person From Heaven
Zodiac Signs Ranked From Introverted To Extroverted
Geminis are both introverted and extroverted, but what else would you expect from The Twins?
How To Playfully Tease A Woman And Win Her Over
Guys who are good with girls don’t mind ruffling a few feathers—not in a rude or malicious way but a fun, playful and challenging way. That’s what women are drawn to.
Read This If You Feel Like There’s No Way You Can Survive Your Grief
You were not ready to wake up every day fighting to hang on and continue with your life without the person who means the most to you.
We’re Okay Now (I Think)
I spent two weeks without any alcohol—and my head stopped hurting in the morning and I didn’t throw up in any kitchen sinks and I didn’t have to make any phone calls to apologize and I didn’t eat a spring roll while sitting on the floor of my shower and I didn’t ever at all think it was an appropriate idea to FaceTime the guy I used to like three times at 3:34AM. I just felt fine.
Find The Guy Who Wants To Make You More Than His Wife
Be with the one who wraps you around his arms and hugs you tightly during the nights when you begin to second-guess whether chasing after your dreams is worth all the pain and trouble.
How To Know If You’re Being Too Needy Or If He’s Emotionally Unavailable
The question if you’re being too needy or a man is emotionally unavailable cannot begin to be answered without first understanding your particular patterns in a relationship.
Zodiacs Ranked Best To Worst Based On How They Handle Being Dumped
If He Likes You You’ll Know, It’s That Simple
I’m Just Waiting For The Perfect Lover
I’m imagining a mouth – unhurried but hungry, pulsating between rough and soft. I’m imagining hands. Hands that bruise and hands that love. I don’t know who he is. I don’t know his face. But I know what he makes me feel.
Fuckboys Are Now Using AirDrop To Send Strangers Dick Pics, But Here’s How You Can Avoid It
Six Years Later And Still Missing You
The Heartbreaking Truth About What It Really Means To Lose Your ‘Forever Person’
When You Start Respecting Yourself, These Are 21 Things That Change In Your Life
What The Last Four Months Of 2017 Will Look Like For You, Based On Your Zodiac
I Deserve To Live: An Honest Account Of Struggling With An Eating Disorder
If You Ever Find Yourself The Target Of A Clique, Remember This
If there is anything that is a real threat to authenticity and originality, it’s cliques. I used to think cliques were something that you leave behind in high school, but oh boy was I wrong. Cliques don’t go away.
Dismantling Societal Privilege In A World Full Of Selfish Jerks
People expect others to give up an unearned advantage because it’s unearned. Maybe in an after-school special where Tommy learns at the science fair that he’d rather lose fair-and-square than cheat and win; yeah, that will probably happen.
How To Stay Together During Major Life Transitions
When transitions disrupt our schedules and routines, the first thing to go is usually couple time, which may seem more expendable than work or errands or household chores. And partners react to the stress of transition in different ways.
How Attachment Style Influences How Successful Your Relationship Will Be
In the simplest form, attachment is the way that our brain evolves to feel safe. It’s almost like having a filter through which we experience the world. Basically, we are social species and the way we feel safe is through other people. One of the most effective ways of regulating our emotions when we are in distress is to be in proximity to someone that we’re securely attached to.
This Is Why Marriage And Proposals Don’t Concern Me While Everyone My Age Is Getting Engaged
The Secret To Getting Over A Breakup, Based On Your Zodiac Sign
Taurus. You remember who you were before the relationship and the amazing life you had. You realize that you don’t need anyone in your life to make you feel better or complete you.
A Few Nice Things I Have To Say About Cersei Lannister Before She Gets Killed Off Of Game Of Thrones
The Two Main Issues You May Not Realize Are Undermining Your Relationships
Couples in unhappy marriages tend to underestimate the number of positive interactions in their marriage by 50%.
This Is Why People With Anxiety Are The Best Friends You’ll Ever Have
They will see through you. They will know the difference between your smiles, the tone you use when you’re happy or sad, the way you excuse yourself when you feel like you don’t want to talk.
What Every Healthy Couple Understands About Problem-Solving
How you and your partner fight directly influences how emotionally connected and passionate your relationship is.
There’s Nothing Left Here For You
There’s nothing left inside of me for you. If you cut a small hole somewhere between my ribs and peeked inside you’d see an empty chamber. You’d see right through me to a xylophone of vertebrae.
This Is What It Feels Like To Struggle With Your First Broken Heart
There will always be questions with no answer. Promises with no guarantee. Trust that will eventually be trashed.
It Might Not Work Out (But That’s Okay)
I think too often we stand in our own way, by learning to exist rather than live.
Ranking The Zodiac Signs By How Likely They Are To Sabotage Their Relationship
Scorpio: While you have a lot of great qualities when it comes to love (your passion, your magnetism), you always end up digging yourself a hole you can’t climb out of. This is largely due to your struggles with jealousy and obsession – you have a hard time letting things go, you hold on to your resentment, and you bottle things up instead of talking to your partner.
You Can’t Control What Your Heart Wants
Maybe love wasn’t a one-time thing anymore. Maybe the books and quotes got it all wrong, it seemed.
Here’s Why You’re So Damn Sensitive All The Time, According To Your Zodiac Sign
Aries (March 21st to April 19th) Do you really need to ask? You’re a big crybaby because you’re so stubborn.
If You Love Her, Maybe You Really Shouldn’t Let Her Go
If you really love someone, if your heart is caught up and wrapped around a person, why on earth would you let them go? Why on earth would you say goodbye and watch, from a distance, as they fall into the arms of someone else?
Here’s Why Steve Bannon Will Probably Be The Next In The Trump Administration To Go
Never Let Anyone Dim Your Sparkle Because It’s The Only One You’ve Got
Learn when to say ‘enough is enough’. It will be the greatest gift you can give yourself.
If You Want To Date Me, You Have To Deal With These 8 Things
I am used to broken promises. I am used to unanswered texts. So I am going to be very wary of you and your intentions. It isn’t personal. I am just protecting my heart.
This Is How We Ruined Dating And Our Love Lives
We’re all just swiping, crossing fingers, and pissed off the person we met on our phone two hours ago is not our soul mate.
Thank You For Showing Me That I Can Still Love
I Work At A Crematorium And I Have No Idea Who We Burned Last Week
This is why I don’t really fear death anymore. Because whatever is waiting for us after death, it’s already here.
There Is Something About You That Makes Me Fearless
You have shown me that safe is not being inside my box but rather it is us spooning during a rainy afternoon, my heart calm and at peace.
