“I honestly didn’t think it would be a big deal. I mean, everyone ghosts. I figured if I didn’t respond to her a few times, she would get the hint and move on.”
If I actually let you into my heart, if I actually date you, if I actually trust you, then you better not screw me over. You better not give me a reason to doubt you.
Time is not something we are promised, yet we spend so much time wasting it.
The fact that hot beverages exist, which you can pour into your favorite mug, is a miracle.
What is my identity? Or in other words, are we what we are, or are we what we do?
Hope is another way of saying we are wishing and desiring something.
In appearance, I was sitting alone, but as a person with a disability, I am never sitting alone.
When you’re confident about what you do and clear about where you’re going, the right strategy will make itself known.
She’s tired of being the girl who believes and makes exceptions and ignores the red flags. She’s tired of being the one who always gets hurt in the end.
A narcissist checks it off as a win because everything is about keeping score with them
Depression is real, but you can fight it, and you can get through it.
I’ll never forgive myself for letting you go.
OCTOBER: You deserve a boyfriend who shows you the same warmth and affection that you so readily give to everyone else.
It is nothing short of insane that the Puritans are celebrated through Thanksgiving. They killed other people who did not believe like they did. One of them was Mary Dyer.
I guess to some people I just come off as being aloof. Some may even describe me as intellectually immature. Others may simply feel that I am just shy and prudent.
You don’t know what to do with her. You’re beginning to take her for granted.
Aries: You were the disturbed kid who placed their Sim inside of the swimming pool and then removed all of the ladders so they would drown.
We, unfortunately, live in a dog-eat- dog world that promotes competition and doesn’t encourage the celebration of other people’s success and achievements enough.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean that they won or have more power over you. It allows you to free yourself from unnecessary pain and resentment.
You don’t have to force yourself to hate and forget your ex-lover.
Let’s be grateful for today because we’ve worked hard to get where we are, we are goddamn warriors.
I got so good at playing the part that I didn’t realize how unhappy I was until our relationship started crumbling.
This is me protecting myself.
You shouldn’t have to put a disclaimer at the ends of your sentences. He treats me like a princess — unless he’s drinking. He is everything I’ve ever wanted — except he can be a real asshole sometimes.
This is how true love happens. This is how lasting love happens. It is not the movie theatre type of romance, it is not grand gestures, and dying confessions. Love, real love, is in the quiet of a thunderstorm feeling safe.
The dreams you remember are for a reason, it’s your unconscious trying to reach out to you.
In the past year, I had the opportunity to ask over 100 brilliant people: “What purchase of $100 or less has most positively impacted your life in the last six months? “
The opposite of shame is pride.
Lying is the ultimate priority. Never give straight answers.
Everything got worse before it got better.
Physical Touch: Purchase a massage for someone you love, or if you’re feeling extra lovey-dovey, pamper them with your own two hands.
You aren’t supposed to apologize twenty times per day because you feel like you are being a bother just by existing.
Pisces: You wanted fairytales, not reality.
“Do what you love and the money will follow.”
Gratitude for that nagging pain in my leg, gratitude for that troublesome client, gratitude for that delayed flight, gratitude for that damage from the storm. Because it’s making me take things slow, because it’s helping me develop better boundaries, because some flights are going to be delayed and I’m glad it wasn’t a more important flight, because the damage could have been worse, because the damage exposed a more serious problem that now we’re solving. And on and on.
Pounds will come and go, don’t let a number define you.
Stay single until falling in love means finding a partner, not a purpose.
He’ll miss you the moment he realizes you never needed him but you chose him. And he should have seen the value in that.
My journal is the context for my dreams. It’s my favorite place to be.
Because at the end of the day this is just one chapter in my book. It’s only a few pages from a thousand of pages. It’s a continuation of a previous chapter or an introduction to a new one. It’s just one chapter and I’m ready to finish it.
I liked you even when I hated you, even when you pissed me off, even when you gave me reasons to give up on you.
I stopped trying to remember your scent. I stopped looking for you in my little ways, my rough days, in my vulnerability, and when I look for happiness.
I know you hated that thing Cody. But believe me my boy, there are far worse things out there than crows or straw men.
She’s honestly my new inspiration.
On the road to finding out what makes you happy, you’re going to run into a lot of things that don’t. You’re going to have a lot of nights where you’re alone and confused and uncertain. You’re going to feel lost at some points along the way.
She is no longer actively looking for love. If anything, she is avoiding it.
Don’t be surprised if it takes several hours before people start getting naked or having sex. The first few hours of a party are for mingling and flirting.
Heartbreak is merely a designated place for us to do our deepest healing in. This is the space for questions, analyzing, transformation, and evolution.
I choose to trust
there are the ugliest of humans in this world
and humans who will light your heart on fire if you just choose to trust
Last week, I visualized my new workout partner. Today, I’m benching 20 lbs more than I ever have before. A few months ago, I noticed a 50-year-old man at the gym lifting twice what I lift in every exercise.