http://tcat.tc/1SB5Gtd
Cataloged in Love

You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves

I used to wonder about people coming back after they’ve decided to leave. I used to wait for the day they come back and realize that they messed up or realize that life is miserable without me. But then I realized that better than all this mess is someone who never leaves.

Someone who never leaves when you hit bumps in the road, someone who never leaves when the rain starts falling down on you, someone who never leaves no matter how many other people are trying to get their attention, someone who chooses to stay every single day.

You deserve someone who never leaves when you tell them about the things you did that you’re ashamed of and the things that happened to you that you promised not to tell anyone. When you tell them about the things you really don’t like about yourself and the things you hated about your past. You deserve someone who never leaves no matter how dark it gets.

You deserve someone who never leaves when you tell them how much you love them, how much you really want to make them happy and how they make you feel something no else made you feel before. How they are special to you and how you really just want to spend your days looking at them and spend your nights sleeping in their arms.

You deserve someone who stays no matter how passionately you display your love and how fearlessly you show your emotions. You deserve someone who is not afraid of the way you love them.

You deserve someone who never leaves even if they found a better job or made more money or bought a fancier car. Someone who never leaves when they’re at their best, when they can get anyone they want but still choose you, when they don’t even care about exploring all these other ‘options’ to realize your worth because they know what they have and they know that you are one of a kind. You deserve someone who makes you believe that some people can stay.

You deserve someone who never leaves when things are not that exciting, when life becomes overwhelming for you to handle, when you are tired all the time, when you’re lost and confused and don’t know what to do next, when you keep doubting yourself and your capabilities. You deserve someone who reminds you of how you survived, someone who reminds you of your strength, someone who reminds you of your greatness and someone who reminds you that even though you can make it on your own, they want to be there, they don’t want you to be alone this time and they want to fight your battles with you. 

Even though we all have that one person we wish could come back, what we really should wish for is someone who never leaves. Someone who left before could leave again but someone who could’ve left but decided to stay is exactly the kind of person you need to be with – is exactly the kind of person you deserve to be with.  TC mark

Rania Naim is a poet and author of the new book All The Words I Should Have Said, available here.

all-the-words-i-should-have-said-composite-promo

Rania Naim

Writing. Living. Loving. Dreaming. Healing. Evolving.

More From Thought Catalog

Does struggling with your skin condition feel like being stuck in a toxic relationship?

Coping with a skin condition like Hidradenitis Suppurativa can wreak havoc on your life, much like toxic relationships. It can be obsessive, affect your sleep, performance, and family. It can feel like a draining internal and external battle.

Understand the Patterns
You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves is cataloged in , , , , , , , ,
  • https://abbyinred.wordpress.com/2016/04/30/from-someone-who-left/ From Someone Who Left – Dilated

    […] read this article on Thought Catalog. I know the website is usually chalk full of cheezy things and personal […]

  • https://brenicojayblog.wordpress.com/2016/05/02/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves – Lifestyle Writing
  • https://graceonasunday.wordpress.com/2016/05/03/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves – Sunday's With Grace
  • https://thoughtcatalog.com/nicoletarkoff/2016/05/im-the-one-who-left-came-back-and-promises-to-stay/ I’m The One Who Left, Came Back, And Promises To Stay | Thought Catalog

    […] was 1:08 in the morning, 11 days after I broke up with him when I decided to read the article. I couldn’t help myself from crying. I was so sad at the same time I was in denial. After all, […]

  • http://dailybuzzworthy.com/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Dont Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves - Daily Buzz Worthy
  • http://nachrichten-aktuelle.com/2016/05/06/ewige-liebe-du-verdienst-jemanden-der-dich-nicht-verlaesst/ Ewige Liebe: Du verdienst jemanden, der dich nicht verlässt | Aktuelle Nachrichten

    […] Blog ist ursprünglich bei Thought Catalog erschienen und wurde von Susanne Raupach aus dem Englischen […]

  • http://www.bbncommunity.com/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves - BBN Community

    […] This post was republished from thoughtcatalog.com. You can find the original post here. […]

  • https://flexpointmarketingblog.wordpress.com/2016/05/27/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Dont Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves – Trending News
  • https://jerkette.wordpress.com/2016/06/06/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves | I'm wonderstruck! ★

    […] (Source) […]

  • https://thoughtcatalog.com/rania-naim/2016/06/ill-never-get-tired-of-writing-about-love/ I’ll Never Get Tired Of Writing About Love | Thought Catalog

    […] I haven’t found yet, I’ll never get tired of dreaming about it, how it will feel, how it’s supposed to be, how it will be everything I ever wanted and more, how it will ease my loneliness and how it will […]

  • https://mydeardiary9.wordpress.com/2016/06/12/when-realisation-hits-you-its-awkwardly-beautiful/ When realisation hits you, its awkwardly beautiful :) – Dear Diary….

    […] internet search on how to get sleep and reading around on Quora has been helping me get around, but this article in particular has helped me realise ‘it is time’ and that I am perhaps finally getting […]

  • https://awhaleofameal.wordpress.com/2016/06/28/we-all-deserve-that-someone/ We all deserve that someone | ♡ to inspire & be inspired ♡
  • https://aladyhoodjourney.wordpress.com/ Pinkspen

    I think we as individuals tend to “learn the hard way” so to speak…we are told what to do, and what not to do…and often times, we still make the mistake and have to pick up the pieces later. I think when you realize that you have found love, you have to fight for it. It is never too late.
    This is a great post!

  • https://indepthwoman.wordpress.com/2016/11/15/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves-thought-catalog/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves — Thought Catalog | Mind Of An In-Depth Woman

    […] via You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves — Thought Catalog […]

  • https://dramaboo.wordpress.com/2017/02/04/03-unheard-rants/ 03 Unheard Rants – My Drama Land
  • http://buzzhulk.com/2017/02/05/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves – BuzzHulk

    […] Source link […]

  • http://www.viralinside.xyz/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves – Viral Inside

    […] Provide connection […]

  • http://isooz.com/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves – iSooz

    […] Source link […]

  • http://nifyhealth.com/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves | Take control of your health!

    […] article came from:Source link Is this your website? If so, Claim this business by clicking […]

  • https://buzzaffcart.wordpress.com/2017/02/05/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves – Buzz AffCart

    […] Source Link […]

  • http://jessecreates.com/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves-life-books-lifestyle-advice-help-relationships-advice/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves #life #books #lifestyle #advice #help #relationships #advice – Jesse Creates

    […] View Source […]

  • https://eyelovecupcakesbyjamie.wordpress.com/2017/06/12/you-dont-deserve-someone-who-comes-back-you-deserve-someone-who-never-leaves/ You Don’t Deserve Someone Who Comes Back, You Deserve Someone Who Never Leaves – ~eye love cupcakes~
  • http://krutika105.wordpress.com krutika105

    Dear!

    I think I’ve just found the thing you were looking for, please take a look here http://lfoz.pl/actually.php?4c4d

    Inez Chaney

  • https://thoughtcatalog.com/rania-naim/2017/08/to-the-girl-who-thinks-that-she-must-be-the-problem/ To The Girl Who Thinks That She Must Be The Problem | Thought Catalog

    […] think it must be you because they never resurfaced, they never came back and they never apologized for letting you […]

  • http://nifyhealth.com/to-the-girl-who-thinks-that-she-must-be-the-problem/ To The Girl Who Thinks That She Must Be The Problem | Take control of your health!

    […] think it must be you because they never resurfaced, they never came back and they never apologized for letting you […]

blog comments powered by Disqus