This Is Why He’ll Never Actually Date You Based On His Zodiac Sign

Stephen Cook

Aries

(March 21st to April 19th)

He’ll never actually date you because he doesn’t want to be tied down. He needs to be free to do what he wants to do when he wants to do it. He doesn’t want to be bothered by obligations like your grandmom’s 85th birthday party that force him to cancel his day on the golf course.

Taurus

(April 20th to May 21st)

He’ll never actually date you because he’s afraid of getting hurt. He needs time to trust you, like A LOT of time, and he won’t actually date you until he does. He doesn’t want to have his heart broken. Taurus men are terrified of heartbreak.

Gemini

(May 22nd to June 21st)

He’ll never actually date you because he’s way too convinced there’s someone better out there waiting for him. He’s always thinking about what else is out there. He doesn’t just want to play the field, he wants to play the entire field.

Cancer

(June 22nd to July 22nd)

He’ll never actually date you because he’s worried about what his friends and family will think of you, and if they’ve already met you, he will never actually date you if they don’t like you. His friends and family mean EVERYTHING to him, they are more important than any relationship he’ll ever potentially have.

Leo

(July 23rd to August 22nd)

He’ll never actually date you because he primarily only thinks about himself. His feelings are more important than yours, and if yours get hurt along the way, oops. He is too self-centered to give you a real relationship.

Virgo

(August 23rd to September 22nd)

He’ll never actually date you because he’s too shy to ever ask you out or make it official. He will type a text that took him 10 minutes to revise and edit, and then delete and never send. He probably wants to date you, but he’s convinced you’ll turn him down or that you’ll break his heart.

Libra

(September 23rd to October 22nd)

He’ll never actually date you because the only person he’ll date is the person he thinks he’ll marry. He believes in true love, and he knows it’s rare, so he’s going to remain completely single and unattached until he finds it.

Scorpio

(October 23rd to November 22nd)

He’ll never actually date you because he only wants what he can’t have. The Scorpio man loves a challenge. He doesn’t just dislike settling, he never does it, and he thinks starting a relationship is settling.

Sagittarius

(November 23rd to December 21st)

He’ll never actually date you because he doesn’t stay in one place long enough to date anyone. He’s constantly traveling and looking for his next big adventure, and sadly for you, that adventure is not starting a relationship.

Capricorn

(December 22nd to January 20th)

He’ll never actually date you because he is way too focused on his career. In his life career comes before love, and he’s the type of person who honestly doesn’t even have the time to date. He prioritizes success in career, not love.

Aquarius

(January 21st to February 18th)

He’ll never actually date you because he’s severely allergic to feelings and emotions. He doesn’t want you to get close enough to open up to him, because he’s terrified of what might happen after. He’d rather keep it casual than get all serious and feely.

Pisces

(February 19th to March 20th)

He’ll never actually date you because he’s probably still trying to get over his last relationship. He is a complete romantic, and he gives every ounce of love he has in every relationship. Sorry, but this Pisces has no more love left to give. TC mark

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