Here’s What Your Boyfriend Finds Most Annoying About You, Based On His Zodiac Sign


Aries (March 21-April 19)

Your dependence. Don’t be dependent if you’re dating an Aries man. They love their own independence just as much as they love their partner’s. An Aries man doesn’t want to feel like you need them, they want to feel like you want them. This doesn’t mean act distant or play hard to get, but continue to live your life the way you were before them. Have your own hobbies, interests, and friends, have your own life.

Taurus (April 20 – May 20)

When you drop subtle hints and expect him to understand them. Don’t expect a Taurus man to pick up on your subtleties. He can’t stand passive aggressive behavior. If you’re unhappy, tell him because he won’t interpret your quietness as anger. He wants you to be direct with what you want. He wants you to communicate in a way that he can easily understand, and he will become frustrated when you expect him to know what you’re thinking.

Gemini (May 21 – June 20)

When you become a Debby-Downer. The Gemini man loves to be surrounded by positivity and feeds off of energy. He hates it when your pessimism attempts to ruin the moment. When dating a Gemini man try to see the positive side of things more often than the negative, he loves that.

Cancer (June 21 – July 22)

Complaining about their family or friends. A Cancer man loves his family, and if you don’t love his family, he probably won’t love you. If you can’t stand his mother or brother or sister, then unless you want to break up, you might just have to grin and bare it. You’re dating him, not his mother, remember that when she’s getting on your last nerve and you’re tempted to complain to him about it.

Leo (July 23 – August 22)

Not answering their texts. A Leo man needs tender love and care, and they need your attention. Don’t ignore a Leo man’s texts because he finds nothing more annoying. For a Leo man you have to stroke his ego a bit, and when you don’t he notices.

Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Not cleaning up after yourself. Don’t leave dirty dishes in a Virgo man’s sink, and before they come over (if you don’t already live together) tidy up. Virgo men’s lives are clean and organized, and they hate it when other people messy them up. They also don’t like to be rushed into anything, so if a Virgo man is slow to let you in (emotionally), be patient.

Libra (September 23 – October 22)

When you’re dramatic. A Libra man does not like conflict and he tries to stay away from it as much as possible. Don’t create drama around a Libra man because he looks at life logically and likes to treat others fairly. He won’t want to get involved in the fight you’re having with your BFF even if she did ditch you for drinks with a Tinder date. Leave him out of the arguments, a Libra man enjoys keeping the peace, between you and him, and everyone else you know.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)

When you lie. Scorpio men can’t stand liars. Don’t think you can cheat on a Scorpio and get away with it. They are smart, and unafraid to assert how they really feel, so not only will they find out about your lies, they’ll say what’s on their mind when they discover them. Don’t be sneaky with a Scorpio, be truthful.

Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)

Your desire to just stay in. A Sagittarius man needs to go out, he needs to explore, discover and find all things adventure. When you have a free weekend and just want to stay home he’ll take a road trip to some remote destination he’s never been, and you shouldn’t try to stop him. A Sagittarius man wants you to encourage his sense of adventure, not prevent it.

Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)

Your attempt to control him. Don’t try to control a Capricorn man. He is determined and goal-oriented, and he likes to be the manager of his own life. He wants your support of his endeavors, not your control of them.

Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)

Your closed-mindedness. An Aquarius man can’t stand a closed mind. He wants to talk about his dreams and things that have meanings he doesn’t quite understand. He sees the world through eyes of opportunity and possibility, and he wants to revel in that with you.

Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

When you have your guard up. Pisces men can’t stand guarded women. They are sensitive and they feel things, and they see beauty in vulnerability. They will appreciate your vulnerability, not judge you for it. So let down your guard and let him in because the Pisces man doesn’t take that for granted. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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