This Is How You Lose The Perfect Woman, Based On Her Zodiac Sign



(March 21st to April 19th)

You lose her when you treat her like an option, rather than a priority. As the first sign of the Zodiac, an Aries takes her needs and wants seriously. She puts herself first, and she expects (and tolerates) nothing less from you.


(April 20th to May 21st)

You lose her when you mess with her head. Playing hard to get won’t win a Taurus over. Already indecisive as it is, she is always trying to find that one sign that she should or should not go for you. The very second you act aloof or uninterested, she will pounce on that behavior to help rein in her decision. If you act unavailable, she takes that as a hint and simply moves on.


(May 22nd to June 21st)

You lose her when you don’t open up. Geminis are extremely picky when it comes to matters of trust. You need to earn hers. It is not a given or guaranteed. If you struggle to be intimate with her, if you are unable to show your deepest wants and fears, she sees that as a lack of communication and truth. She sees that as a warning sign and takes that red flag seriously.


(June 22nd to July 22nd)

You lose her when you overstep your boundaries and act clingy. Cancers are very private and independent creatures. She will like and need lots of space and alone time to gather her thoughts and herself. Over-texting and showering with too much affection will make her feel smothered. She interprets this as a crack in your foundation and insecurity in yourself, and your relationship.


(July 23rd to August 22nd)

You lose her when you fail to notice the little things about her. Leos love attention and to be noticed. When you overlook the very quirks and traits that make her who she is, she will feel unimportant and ignored. She will feel like you don’t know her at all.


(August 23rd to September 22nd)

You lose her when you don’t make the first move. Virgos are, by nature, incredibly shy. Even if she is head over heels for you, even if you’re the last person on her mind each night before she goes to sleep, she will make sure you never know it unless she is positive you feel the same way. You need to swallow your pride and reach out if you want it to work. Otherwise, you’ll never get a chance.


(September 23rd to October 22nd)

You lose her when you fail to compromise. Libras crave harmony. It is one of their hallmark traits. If you refuse to see both sides of a situation, if you neglect to hear her out or find a solution that will leave both of you at ease, she will eventually have enough and walk away.


(October 23rd to November 22nd)

You lose her when you act aloof and uninterested. Though you may be doing this in efforts to either *~play the game~* or to not become overbearing, ultimately it will hurt your chances with her. Scorpios are incredibly resourceful. She knows there are plenty of other fish in the sea, and in the words of Beyonce, she can find “another you in a minute.”


(November 23rd to December 21st)

You lose her when you fail to step outside your comfort zone. A Sagittarius loves adventure. She is curious and loves to explore the world and all of its mysteries. She is always seeking something new and more exciting than what she has known before. If you are unwilling to embark on a life full of twists and turns and the unknown, she will become bored with you. She will need a partner who is as passionate about spontaneity and adventure as she is.


(December 22nd to January 20th)

You lose her when don’t put in the difficult work it takes to make a relationship blossom. Capricorns are the most determined sign of the Zodiac. They work hard and play harder. They are serious about the people they hold close, especially romantically. And, if you’re unwilling to have the tough conversations, if you fail to compromise, if you decide you’d rather not get through the messiness that is a relationship, you’ve lost her.


(January 21st to February 18th)

You lose her when you treat her unfairly. An Aquarius is very just. Her moral compass is always facing the right direction. She goes out of her way to make sure she is treating others (including you) with the utmost respect, dignity, and care. If you fail to reciprocate, she will not be able to tolerate that.


(February 19th to March 20th)

You lose her when you don’t acknowledge her feelings. A Pisces woman is deeply emotional. Her emotions guide her every move, and she is quite intuitive. She trusts what she feels and will often report these emotional experiences to you. If you fail to validate what she is feeling, if you brush these thoughts and feelings aside, she will take this as a sign you are not right for her. She doesn’t take it personally; she simply leaves.

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