To Those Who Get Attached Easily And Keep On Getting Hurt

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Flickr / bailey.foster


We all know how hard these are. You meet someone you really connect with them, you get the butterflies, you think about them constantly and it gets to the point where you feel like you are going crazy because the feelings just keep getting stronger.

The other person usually reciprocates and the feelings keep building up, but then you get to that one point where you are afraid they are going to leave you and forget about you and not like you anymore.

Eventually the feelings the person has for you go away and there is nothing you can do about it except ask yourself why. What did I do? Why don’t they like me anymore? I’m still the same person I was when I was with them.

What changed? Then you start thinking it’s all because of you or because they found someone ten times better than you that you can’t even compare to. It gets hard because then you start thinking you aren’t good enough and no one is going to like you or when someone does like you they don’t stay very long, just like the other people who once liked you.

So how do the feelings go away so fast? Why do people change their mind? We have to go through heartbreak because it teaches us a lesson such as who to trust and who not to trust, what kind of person we deserve. Just think about this, those people are always going to regret leaving someone as amazing as you.

They are dumb and they can’t have you now because you have moved on to better things and you don’t them to feel complete. You deserve someone who is so thankful to have you and cherishes you and cares about you and wants to be a part of your life.

You don’t deserve to be ignored, led on, or hurt. So just remember that you are a beautiful human being and you deserve the best and all of those people who can’t see it are missing out on something incredible. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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