Holly Riordan

If their love language is acts of service, they’re going to help you out with your chores whenever you’re stressed. You won’t even need to ask them to pick up your slack because they will volunteer on their own.

Actions are as important as words. Even if you vocalize your feelings for your partner every single day, saying sweet words isn’t enough. You need to back up those words with your actions.

It’s always nice when your crush shows interest in you, too. When they like your photos and comment with fire and heart emojis.

You don’t have to pretend you’re emotionless. Even though there are people out there who are going to run the other way when you show the slightest ounce of emotion, it doesn’t mean you need to play it cool.

Breadcrumbing is when someone you’re crushing on senses that you’re interested in a relationship, so they give you just enough attention to keep you around.

When you love someone, you’re going to give them one hundred percent of your energy.

You might not want to ruin the friendship by hooking up on a whim if you know you’re never going to end up together.

Thinking that you’re behind everyone else and are never going to catch up. Your timeline is going to look different than your friends and parents and peers.

You should make the first move because waiting is the worst part. Wondering whether they feel the same is the worst part. Examining every move they make in person and on their social media is exhausting.

You never congratulate yourself over your wins–but you dwell on your losses. You should be proud of yourself when you accomplish something special. Don’t brush it off like it’s no big deal and move onto the next thing.

You cannot control their thoughts or decisions. It doesn’t matter how long you try to talk sense into them or how valid your points are.

Don’t go too long without taking a break. Don’t burn yourself out. Don’t procrastinate when it comes to slowing down and giving yourself a rest. Remember that you don’t have to earn your breaks. You already deserve them.

Your accomplishments aren’t tied to your worth. Even though you care deeply about your creative work, it has nothing to do with your own personal value.

You never feel appreciated. You do so much for them, but they never say thank you. They never remind you how wonderful it is to have you in their life.

You’re allowed to be heartbroken. You don’t need to date someone to develop strong feelings for them. Knowing that you’re never going to be with this person is going to sting. You’re allowed to cry your eyes out.

You are under no obligation to spend time with relatives who make you uncomfortable.

Getting ghosted sucks because you have no idea what you’ve done wrong. You’re left with lingering questions that are never going to be answered.

You don’t want to waste years of your life chasing after the wrong person. If they don’t see your worth from the start, they probably aren’t worth your energy. You should move on.