How You Are Too Nice (And It Is Ruining Your Life) Based On Your Zodiac Sign

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Aries: March 21st – April 19th

You keep people in your life out of guilt. Even though you know you would be happier without them, you have trouble cutting them out of your life. You have trouble saying goodbye. You don’t want to hurt their feelings by leaving, even if you know leaving is what’s best for you.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

You hate confrontation. You will do anything you can to avoid an argument. That means you will put up with unfair treatment for much longer than you should. It means you allow yourself to get walked over because you’re too afraid of sticking up for yourself.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

You are never the one making the final decision. When you go to the movies, your friends pick which film to see. When you go out to eat, they pick the restaurant. You want them to be happy, so you never suggest where you want to go. You always end up going with whatever they want and sacrificing your own happiness for the good of the group.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

You will give 100% to people who barely give you 50%. You will go out of your way to help others, even when they haven’t asked for your help. You treat other people better than you ever expect them to treat you, because you care more about their happiness than about your own happiness.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

You put way too much on your plate at once. You feel guilty saying no, so you never turn down people who ask for your time. You make promises to them, even when you should really be focusing more on your own mental health than on making them happy.

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

You give out too many chances. You accept bullshit apologies and let people hurt you over and over again. You don’t lose faith in them — even when you have every right to walk away.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

You apologize over everything. You say sorry when you are too late. You say sorry when you are too early. You say sorry when you weren’t even the person who was in the wrong. You apologize for your existence when you have no reason to do so.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

When someone needs a place to crash, you invite them over. When someone needs to borrow a twenty, you reach into your wallet. When someone is hungry, you hand them the rest of your food. You don’t think twice about giving away your own things to help others — but sometimes, that means there isn’t enough left for you.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

You bottle up all of your emotions. When you are angry with someone, you stuff it down inside. When you are upset, you stuff it down inside. You are always faking laughs and smiles to appear polite. And when you can’t take it anymore, when you finally explode, you are the one who has to deal with the aftermath alone.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

You are the one sign who never suffers from being too nice. You know your own worth. You don’t put up with anyone else’s bullshit. You walk away when you are being treated poorly. You make sure that you get what you deserve.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

You always agree to activities that you have zero interest in doing. You will agree to go to parties when you would rather stay home. You will agree to work extra hours when you are tired and just want to sleep. Your calendar is filled with things you don’t want to do, because you are too nice to let other people down.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

You are terrified of hurting other people’s feelings, which is why you tell so many little white lies. You will lie about liking someone’s outfit or haircut or music taste. You will silence yourself, you will hold yourself back, you will avoid speaking your mind, because you don’t want to offend anyone. TC mark

The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved.

You don’t have to solve your whole life tonight. You just have to show up and try. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. You’ll figure out the rest along the way.

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