This Is What Happens When A Forever Alone Girl Finds Her Forever Person

Forever alone girl
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When a forever alone girl finds her forever person, she is caught off guard. She never expected to come across someone who fit her in all the right ways. Over the years, she grew used to being the single friend. As much as she hoped for a serious relationship, a part of her believed that she would always be alone. That she would only have herself to rely on.

When a forever alone girl finds her forever person, all of her fears about not being ready for a relationship fade away. It doesn’t matter if she has zero experience with love. It doesn’t matter if she usually sucks at flirting and feels like a bad kisser. With this person, everything is different. With this person, everything comes easy.

When a forever alone girl finds her forever person, she will want to take her time. It doesn’t matter how much she likes them. It doesn’t matter if she knows from the very first moment that they are meant to be. She is still going to want to move slowly, because she is not used to dating someone, let alone living with someone. She needs some time to adjust.

When a forever alone girl finds her forever person, she tries her hardest not to fuck it all up. She knows how hard it is to find someone worth dating, so she won’t want to ruin it. So she will put in the effort. She will work hard to keep the relationship strong. She will treat him right as long as he keeps treating her right.

When a forever alone girl finds her forever person, some things will change. Up until now, she always did what she wanted to do, without taking anyone else into account. She never even considered getting married or having children, because she didn’t think it was in the cards for her. But now she has to ask herself if she wants those things. She has to figure out how the relationship is going to change her vision of her future.

When a forever alone girl finds her forever person, some things won’t change. She will still focus on following her dreams. She will still find time to hang out with her friends. She will still be the same exact person. Even though she is excited about her new relationship, she will not let it become her entire world.

When a forever alone girl finds her forever person, she transforms from a skeptic to a believer. She stops rolling her eyes at every love song she hears and couple she sees. She doesn’t turn into a full-fledged romantic overnight, but she is giddy about being loved. She is thrilled that she is now experiencing it, even though she always claimed she didn’t need it.

When a forever alone girl finds her forever person, she stops being bitter over the fact that she was alone for such a long period of time. She stops being angry at the boys that hurt her in the past, because they unknowingly led her in the right direction. They led her toward the love of her life. And as cliche as it sounds, this person was well worth the wait. TC mark

The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved.

You don’t have to solve your whole life tonight. You just have to show up and try. Focus on the most immediate thing in front of you. You’ll figure out the rest along the way.

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