1. When you’re afraid that you’re idealizing your love life (again):

2. When you need alone time to process your feelings but your friends just don’t understand:

3. When you’re exhausted from trying to act normal all day:

4. When you really want to hate someone but you’re compulsively open-minded:

5. When you’re desperately trying to hold your own around thinking types:

6. When you’re trying not to fixate on your new crush but it’s not working:

7. When you finally decide to throw in the towel on playing it cool:

8. When you meet someone who dislikes something fun:

9. When you’re trying to hold a grudge but your attention span is way too short:

10. When you start to realize that you’ve been stuck in an Ne-Te loop:

11. When you don’t understand why your friend is excited about something but you want to be supportive:

12. When everyone tells you you’re too trusting but you know otherwise:

13. When someone expects you to compromise your individuality and your introverted feeling is having none of it:

14. When you’re fed up with the emotional unavailability of the thinking types you’ve been dating:

15. When other people tell you that you’re not taking life seriously enough:

16. When you’re trying to be a cool, collected adult but then something hits you in the feels:

17. When your morals are violated and your Fi/Te RILES:

18. Any time you’re forced to choose just one of the really cool options that are available to you:

19. When you’re trying to explain to your thinking friends why they need to express their emotions:

20. When your introverted sensing finally talks some sense into your extroverted intuition:

21. Thinking about the future when you’re in the grip of inferior Si:

22. And finally, reassuring your other ENFP friends that they’re never, ever alone:

Heidi Priebe explains how to manage the ups, downs and inside-outs of everyday life as an ENFP in her book available here.