It’s not every day that women take initiative with guys, mostly because a lot of us grew up being told that it’s a man’s job to make the first move. And come on, let’s be real: telling people you like them is scary as fuck.
But this sex and relationship blogger took to Twitter to encourage women to ask out the guys they were crushing on, and honestly, it was inspirational.
Ladies ask that guy you fancy out on a date and tweet me a screen shot of his response. 💁🏾
— OLONI BABY (@Oloni) October 26, 2017
A lot of women got really positive answers back.
https://twitter.com/keshefmir/status/923566544637984768
https://twitter.com/RejiYates/status/923616095289913344
Omg i did It!!! pic.twitter.com/izFbiZut5t
— kingsley shacklebolt (@iamnothedwig) October 26, 2017
— . (@itslivsxx) October 26, 2017
https://twitter.com/somalii_pirate/status/923615346136936454
https://twitter.com/AzaMakeda/status/923612216099819526
Others… got less than encouraging responses.
Oloni look what you made me do 😩😭😭😭#datechallenge pic.twitter.com/JJmVjnKRAT
— Nwanyioma (@ada__OG) October 26, 2017
— 👀 (@xxiiixi__) October 26, 2017
That was a fail 😭😭 pic.twitter.com/FoUnaCfHNo
— Muntazzy (@Quruxleyyy) October 26, 2017
— can we fix, can we blend… can we contour? (@AMSSOVI) October 26, 2017
PART 2: NEVER AGAIN 💔 pic.twitter.com/pp4CJtSMtP
— can we fix, can we blend… can we contour? (@AMSSOVI) October 26, 2017
Some were just straight-up mean.
https://twitter.com/pqdotcom/status/923619641422942209
Welp. pic.twitter.com/gKFfafrh1x
— Mahogany Saint (@TheHoginator) October 26, 2017
https://twitter.com/s_diax/status/923649428296257536
Some people are just assholes, tbh. But none of the rejections got me as bad as this one.
Never doing this again pic.twitter.com/hNLSQOXfFZ
— nick1m1r4j3 (@Dykeike) October 26, 2017
Okay, so you aren’t always going to win, but at least you tried. That counts for something, doesn’t it? You’ll never know otherwise. Shoot your shot, ladies. 
