Historically women have been called gold-diggers any time they require any kind of effort from men, even if he doesn’t have any gold to dig. Now, with more women getting college degrees and young women out-earning men, these same men are starting to change their tune. Luckily, women of Twitter have started exposing the men who as them for money. Some of these men just met the women on Tinder!
Here’s the original tweet:
y’all …. he finna be 30 🥴😭 pic.twitter.com/OuK8r2Jtxo
— exodia . (@rarestofall_) October 18, 2020
And another one:
I had one saying him and his child was starving , which he failed to realized I knew he ain’t have a child. And I was still tryna be nice and DoorDash but guess you can’t help ppl. pic.twitter.com/dLcoZqX8GB
— bluntopia ✝️ (@RomanTwinSister) October 19, 2020
And another:
i knew this man for a week tops & he wanted me to let him move into my house because his pieces wasn’t hitting…he was 29. pic.twitter.com/HiF1ClkQHO
— j. (@thejemerialenae) October 19, 2020
crazy thing is he tried again the next day 🥴 pic.twitter.com/Z6x1YU0ZyE
— j. (@thejemerialenae) October 19, 2020
She hadn’t even known him for a full week:
Hadn’t been texting him a week lol the $10 was fine THE FIRST TIME but the second time I had to block him bc sir you need to focus on yourself. 34 with no kids yet struggling to eat every time I talk to you. 🥴 pic.twitter.com/IK3VwzwmJW
— Billie Ocean ✨🦋 (@JetBombshell) October 19, 2020
Literally a whole grand
At least y’all get the $10-$30 people. When people ask me for money it’s always $500 or more 🤦🏾♀️ pic.twitter.com/VbRgspZixu
— 𝔊𝔬𝔡𝔡𝔢𝔰𝔰 ℜ𝔢𝔦𝔤𝔫𝔇𝔯𝔬𝔭 ✨👸🏾💧✨ (@GoddessreignD) October 19, 2020
BTW this is a scam
Like nigga was you waiting for me offer anything. 😂 pic.twitter.com/bpqNd2iYv7
— ithinkitsjasmine (@Ms_Jasmine_T) October 19, 2020
Another scam
I’ll never forget when a man casually asked me for a whole letter of invitation and $300 🤣 pic.twitter.com/BBy3Pg45W5
— nay (@WHATSNAYSAYING) October 19, 2020
Spoons?
The proof. This was last year. 😓 pic.twitter.com/2xVFe7cxkO
— Meecreaux Wavé Stan (@SaveTheFvcks) October 19, 2020
NO.
🙃 he wasn’t even a boo or nothing, I’m just a sucker….and the received was just him sending my money back so I could give it to him a different way pic.twitter.com/SlxhvC8UXk
— Nena (@yungyenn) October 19, 2020
“This sucks”
LMFAOO another one😭😭 like how is that my problem.. pic.twitter.com/uFaMLIbq2R
— cassandra🦋 (@corderocass) October 19, 2020
At least he wanted to work?
Does this count till this day he still got me fucked up pic.twitter.com/E79GzcvSeK
— Naj (@Najayy) October 19, 2020
It’s the gaslighting for me
He tried saving his own ass 😭 pic.twitter.com/2ReypIsUid
— Julianna 🍇 (@juliannamoreno_) October 19, 2020
“I don’t know how you could feel comfortable asking”
— Ashly🌻 (@htebazileylhsa_) October 19, 2020
If you won’t give me money you’re fake
Mind you this man was 34. Gave him money a couple times, and once I started saying no…. this narcissistic behavior would continue. Messages back to back about how “terrible” I was for not giving him money. pic.twitter.com/21dUbwmN8o
— Jamilah_TooSpicy🌶🥵😈 (@BigJuicyyJ) October 19, 2020
“I don’t even remember your name”
I had met this guy while out with my girlfriends and the very next day this happens 😂 pic.twitter.com/5XII0Rqi8p
— Bambina 🍭💖 (@___Bambina___) October 19, 2020
This is how it’s done Queens
Ooooo I wanna play!!! pic.twitter.com/PoGd88aAIS
— Baby Girl Krissy🌻 (@KrissyDeClou29) October 19, 2020
I think in a healthy relationship giving money to someone you love is perfectly fine. But that’s in an established, committed relationship where you are already valued and trust that they are loyal to you. These texts are just… unhinged on a whole different level and I pray for any woman who is falling for it. Here’s a little anthem you can keep in your head until someone demonstrates that they are trustworthy.