The Reason He Didn’t Date You (Which Isn’t Your Fault At All) Based On His Zodiac Sign

Two people who didn't date
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Aries: March 21st – April 19th

He feels like he’s too young to settle down. He doesn’t want to dedicate his entire life to one person when he has barely had any experience dating. It might sound like timing is a bullshit excuse, but he wouldn’t enter a serious relationship with anyone right now. He needs a few more years to mature. To figure out who he is.

Taurus: April 20th – May 20th

He is still stuck on an ex — and that isn’t your fault at all. It’s not that she was prettier than you or funnier than you or more intelligent than you. But she was someone he loved, and he never got closure, so it was difficult for him to give you what you needed. His mind was still in the past and there was nothing you could do to change that.

Gemini: May 21st – June 20th

He wanted to keep his options open. Is that bullshit? Yes. Would he have chosen to date you if he wanted you badly enough? Probably. The truth is, he liked you a lot, but he liked the idea of playing the field even more. One girl isn’t enough for him. Not right now, at least.

Cancer: June 21st – July 22nd

He wasn’t in love with you — and that is not your fault, even if it feels like it. You can’t force someone to love you. And he couldn’t force himself to love you. You didn’t end up dating, because the feelings just weren’t there. But with someone else, they will be.

Leo: July 23rd – August 22nd

He didn’t date you because he is still trying to figure some things out. He isn’t boyfriend material at the moment. You should be happy you never entered a serious relationship, because could you have ever really trusted him? Could you have ever really believed a word he said?

Virgo: August 23rd – September 22nd

You two didn’t have any chemistry. On paper, you were perfect for each other, but when it came to face-to-face conversations, there wasn’t any sexual tension. You two were better off as friends. A relationship never would have worked out. Deep down, you know that.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd

You never told him how you felt about him (even though you gave him a million signs and thought you made it obvious), so he didn’t know you wanted a relationship. He was worried about you rejecting him, so he never made the first move. He was too afraid of what might happen, just like you were.

Scorpio: October 23rd – November 21st

He was already in a complicated relationship with somebody else. He didn’t want to make it worse by pursuing you. He decided to stay where he was comfortable instead of take a risk with you, because it was the easier option.

Sagittarius: November 22nd – December 21st

He wanted sex. He never had any interest in a relationship. He only wanted to have fun, and once he realized you wanted more than that, he bailed.

Capricorn: December 22nd – January 19th

He isn’t in the right mindset for a relationship right now. He is too busy with other things. Mostly, his career. He doesn’t want to get distracted by love and push his dreams to the background. He has his heart set on making something of himself.

Aquarius: January 20th – February 18th

He was afraid of hurting you, so instead of jumping into a relationship with you, he took the coward’s way out and ghosted you. He thought he was doing what was best for you, when really, he hurt you worse than you deserved.

Pisces: February 19th – March 20th

He genuinly thought that you were just friends. He didn’t realize you had feelings for him. He mistook your flirting for being friendly. He was just that oblivious. Thought Catalog Logo Mark

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