“Body image issues. I worry about my stretch marks and scars and birthmarks. I also used to worry about if they think my thighs are fat. My husband cured the thigh thing for me when we were dating. I was wearing shorts and asked him if he thought they were fat and he told me ‘I don’t think so, but wrap them around my head so I can get a closer look, just to make sure.’”
“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino
Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.
